EP283. Talking Sex with Vanessa & Xander Marin

The Mom Room

Renee Reina & Podcast Nation

Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8 • 602 Ratings

🗓️ 4 April 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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EP283. Vanessa Marin, LMFT and her husband, Xander are the authors of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. One common issue that comes up in marriage post-baby is a lack of intimacy and a loss of connection. We think sex should happen spontaneously and naturally, and that we shouldn't need to do anything to feel desire. It often does feel that way in the beginning of relationships, meaning that couples never have meaningful conversations about sex, what turns them on, what they need to feel connected, or learn how to navigate sexual conflict effectively. So when the honeymoon phase wears off, and the spark dims, couples are left feeling lost if their sex life doesn't live up to what it used to be. In this Episode, Vanessa and Xander help us discover what type of sex drive, sex personality type, and initiation style you have, and then they get into the five essential conversations that every romantic couple should have. RENEE REINA www.themomroom.com Instagram: @themomroompodcast | @reneereina_ TikTok: @reneereina_ Facebook Community Youtube: Renee Reina- The Mom Room Podcast Vanessa & Xander Instagram: @vanessaandxander SPONSORS Athletic Greens HelloFresh Lume Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:19.1	Come in. Relax. I think that's how I'm going to start the podcast from now on. I'm going to like
1:24.4	pretend that you're coming over and say something, you know, like, oh, can I get you a drink? Like something like that. I think that's cute. Anywho. I'm going to like pretend that you're coming over and say something, you know, like,
1:27.6	oh, can I get you a drink? Like something like that. I think that's cute. Anywho, very exciting,
1:33.2	very romantic episode today. I am speaking with Vanessa Marin, who is a licensed marriage and
1:40.5	family therapist and her husband, Xander Marin.
1:50.6	In this episode, they are sharing extremely valuable information about sex, specifically how to talk about sex with your partner.
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