Hello friends. Welcome once again to your favorite

podcast. My favorite podcast, everybody's favorite therapy-themed

podcast. It's uh, what heck is this podcast called? This changes everything.

I forget sometimes because I host a whole bunch of them.

But I am so excited to be meeting with you this week

because A, I love our topic, but B, I have a relationship question to ask. Oh what is it? Let's hear this is this is what you know I we've been doing this show now like we've got a some episodes of the bag we've been doing this for a while you know we're like more

than just like Instagram friends and Tik-talk friends now I think so now I'm like okay

has it been enough time for me to then to like use him for free therapy?

Let's see.

Okay, thank goodness.

So Eli and I have been together for like almost we're coming up on like I don't

like nine months and ten months almost a year fastly quickly approaching a year and we

like live together you know I still have my apartment but like I don't sleep there and and

there is a part of me that is hesitant to talk about marriage because I've been married

before and I also don't want to like feel like I'm putting pressure on somebody, but in, so how do I approach this subject?

Because he always says like, this is it, like, you're it it like you're not going anywhere what am I

going to do break up with you my mother would kill me like he's like I'm not going to do that so

you know but I all like and then we we had a conversation the other I was like you

don't even know what kind of ring I want and he was like yeah I do I know what you

would want and I was like no you don't because my ex-husband thought he knew and he did not and I hated

that ring so much it was so not me so

so tell me what I should do and what tell me everything. Well this is actually you bringing up asking me on the

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