You are now listening to episode 18 season 2

What's up you guys it's your girl and I IV and welcome back to my podcast

I know you guys missed me and be like uh-uh and I wouldn't get a podcast this week was going on girl

I mean life hasn't really changed for

a lot of us in many ways so um you know I had to really dive into some thoughts and figure out you know

what do I want to talk about this week and um you know I had been around my family and I don't know if you

ladies or gentlemen listening experience this but it is something that is very annoying and very

frustrating when you feel the pressures of your family now as we all age in our 20s

you know um we may have siblings or friends and family members that are having children getting married

and you know when you're the single one who get money looking fly being successful and whatnot

everybody wants to know like so you got a boyfriend when are you getting married are you thinking

about having kids anytime soon and it's just so fucking annoying I don't know if it's annoying

for you guys but it's very annoying for me and I'm very aware that my grandmother is getting older

my grandparents are getting older my mother my father is getting older but I just refuse to settle

and I just hate the pressures that family will put on to a single people to be in a relationship

or to have children or to be in a committed marriage it's just like yeah these are things I've

thought about and these are things that I would love to have when the time comes but I'm not going

to rush because of my age I'm not going to rush into a relationship just because I don't have

anybody or you know I'm not going to rush to have kids because my clock is ticking as a young woman

I'm not fucking doing that I'm not doing that and it's it's like when your family asks you that

you know you try to be respectful and say oh you know when I meet the right one but it's just like

I really be one to say why you're fucking business that's what I really be wanting to say

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