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Am I the A-Hole for sending the text that destroyed my family?

Bicy texts.

This comes from Charming Educators 612 and they say,

So my brother's wedding happened two days ago and it turned into a complete chaos,

which I know even though I don't were there.

I don't were there. Which I know even though I wasn't there. You might wonder why I didn't attend the wedding if it's my brother as well. It's because of his wife's family. He sent me an invitation to the wedding because he wanted me there. But his fiance told them I couldn't attend because I had a boyfriend. Might be confused, but I'm a man.

Bisexual man to be exact. And I have a boyfriend who I wanted to bring to the wedding, which we've had this situation happen before, but it was the husband and wife that were like, I don't know if I want that person at the wedding. Yeah. So she said even though she doesn't have a problem with that and he doesn't have a problem with that,

her extremely religious parents who already forced her to do the wedding in a church would most likely banish us from the wedding and cause trouble between our families.

And as we've said in that last episode, you are punishing the wrong person.

Yes. Yes. Also, why this is your wedding. Why let someone force you to host a wedding summer you don't want to be too? Exactly. Come on. After she told him that my brother told me I couldn't attend and told me why, you might think I was angry. The truth is I was relieved. I hate going to big events with lots of people because of my social anxiety. and I already was used to not being able to

attend certain events because of my sexuality. So it was nothing I haven't heard before. That sucks.

tragic. So the day of the wedding, I stayed home with my boyfriend. It's worth mentioning my parents

apparently didn't know I wasn't attending the wedding. I was chilling at home. Cut along my boyfriend

when I suddenly got a text message from my parents asking me where I was because they couldn't find me at the wedding party. I told them I wasn't attending the wedding. And if my brother hasn't told them anything, they said no and asked me what happened. He's like, oh, did my brother tell you? Right. I didn't say any reason to lie. So I sent them a text message telling them exactly why.

I see you. I see you in the comments. Now, I have to admit, I don't know exactly what happened

after I sent them this message because they read it but didn't reply. And why did they even care

in the first place? They didn't notice I wasn't there before until the wedding was already over.

They only noticed when the wedding party started. However, apparently my parents talked to my brother about it.

All of a sudden, my absence was the main topic of the wedding party.

From what I heard, two fronts formed one side against the other.

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