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So straight corner 3555 says using a throwaway because I just need advice. My wife, 29

female and I 34 male have been married for four years. And up until a year and a half ago,

things were great. Our marriage began to deteriorate after there was a significant drop in sex

between us, not intimacy, just the actual

sex part of the relationship. We would still cuddle and have deep intimate moments talking and

just being around each other, but she kept rejecting my attempts at taking things further past

kissing. Now, we have had no problem communicating, so I made sure to address it early. And we talked

and made adjustments. We both made sure to stay in shape.

We tried being more adventurous. We went to couples therapy slash counseling and even tested both

of our hormone levels. Everything was normal. Each solution would work for a little while and then

we'd be back to having sex maybe once a month. I asked her several times if she was no longer

attracted to me, to which she denied every time. I asked her if I was falling short in the relationship in any way, to which she said no. Well, about a month ago, she gets back from her therapy session and tells me that she believes that she's asexual, and that's the reason for her libido being non-existent as of late. I was definitely confused because we had such great sex for a while in the beginning of a relationship, but her telling me that she's now asexual was heartbreaking because everything else is great. Obviously, I'm not going to force her to have sex. So we had a long conversation about our relationship. And I came to the conclusion that we should get a divorce. Whoa. Yo. I feel like that's a really quick.

I mean, I don't know. It depends on how many conversations they have because it sounds like they had one conversation. Yeah. He was like, I got a divorce. The biggest thing for him is sex. Yeah. And they're trying new things. They're working out. I guess he just can't get past this. That sucks. That does suck because like for, I mean,

it seems like they still have every, like every other, they still have great intimacy.

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