This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. Am I the A-Hole for being suspicious of my girlfriend's friend after she tried to test me? I hate the test, the relationship tests or bad? Oh, I hate them. Oh, I didn't realize that's, yeah. They must be a relationship test, right? I hate one like, like I've seen a lot of those videos.

Yeah, to see if he'll flirt back.

That's weird.

Also, I feel like that would destroy the boyfriend and the friend's relationship going forward.

Like, if I were that partner and someone tested me, I would never forget that.

I'd be like, I'm super not comfortable being around your friend.

Yeah.

What's you going to test me with next? Yeah. No, just like in general. She's doing an orange peel my way. Is she testing her or she's flirting with me? I'd be so uncomfortable. But let's see what. Really happens. T.A. Harper 3242.3 says. I 30 male have been dating my girlfriend, Olivia, 23 female, for the last one year.

For the last one year. Who says last one year? I know. I was like, what? For the last year.

We met at a coffee shop near my office, which I used to frequent to get my morning coffee, and she worked there as a barista.

I asked her out, and she said yes.

Things have been great so far,

and I feel we are compatible in terms of what we like and want from a relationship.

She has a group of three girlfriends she is close with.

These girls are always very welcoming to me,

but they seem very immature compared to my friends. They are 23 and you

are 30. They seem a lot younger than me. Yeah, I wonder what is different. One of the girls is

Harper. A seven year difference is pretty massive. It's a 23 year old and a 30 year old. That would be

dating a 20 year old. It's weird. And then being like, why are they so immature? Yeah, dude. They're like talking about studying for tests like that ages ago. Yeah. Grow up. One of the girls is Harper, 23 female. Harper is awesome. And we get along well since we like the same video games and music. It's good. Recently, Olivia and I were talking about taking her relationship to the next stage. And I asked her to move in with me. She spends four to five nights a week at my place anyway. So I asked her to just move in. Okay. For some reason, her parents are the most excited about this as she is finally moving out of their house. She also told her friends about the same. Also, finally, it's been like maybe a year since she graduated college. Yeah, I mean, did she well, she could have been. Unless she was, yeah, unless she went to a community college and she was living. Yeah, yeah, that's true. Which often happens. Yeah. On Saturday, Olivia decided to stay back at her parents' house to pack some of her things. Harper messaged Olivia and me that she and her friends were downtown and if we wanted to hang out with her. Olivia was gone. But she told me it was okay if I wanted to go out for drinks with the girls. With the girlies. I had nothing to do and hence I joined them. It was all three of her friends and me, and we went to a few bars. We lost the other two

girls midway, and it was just Harper and I. Mono, imano. I was constantly messaging Olivia about what

was going on as I started to get uncomfortable with the situation. As it was getting late, I told

Harper that I would get an Uber for her to drop her home.

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