This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. I'm engaged, but my best friend just told me he loves me. What should I do? This is OKOP, home of the craziest true stories on earth. I'm Sophia and Riley. What do you do when your best friend rushes in and yells, I object at your wedding? You got to pick. You got to be on the spot.

Yeah.

Who gives you the most laughter? Mm-hmm. It makes you feel safe. Mm-hmm. The best friend's not cutting it. That's an awkward conversation. We just watched the notebook and I feel like that. Yo, that's a good point. I mean, I guess they were best friends. This is giving me made of honor type of. Oh, interesting conspiracy.

Well, let's find out what's going on.

So Honeybee, 1, 2, 3, 3, 2, 2, 2.1 says, I know that this sub has a huge issue with large age gaps. So I would like to point out that the age gap between my fiance and I is not the center of this post. And I would appreciate it if you kept your opinions about that to yourselves. What? I'm interested what this age gap is. Well, we're about to find out, but you've got to

keep your opinions to yourselves. Okay. I won't say anything about the age gap. We won't say anything.

Now, some backstory, I met my best friend Trevor, 39 male, and my fiance, Burke, 44 male,

almost five years ago when I was 22.

Now 27 female and they were 40 and 34.

Okay.

We can do math though.

Well, we know.

We're just doing math.

We're not making any assumptions.

We're just repeating.

O.P. was 22 when they met their best friend who was 40.

No, sorry.

When they met their fiancee, he was 40 and their best friend who was 40. No, sorry. When they met their fiance, he was 40 and

their best friend who was 34. They are now 27. That's 20. That's 18 years and 12 years.

Anyway, they both work together and for privacy purposes, I'm keeping their occupation a secret.

But I met Burke first and we became good friends and then I met Trevor next. I was immediately infatuated with Trevor. Him and I spoke quite a bit. We went out on a few dates. And I thought he felt the same way about me. But one day he dropped a bomb on me where he basically told me he never felt anything for me other than friendship and doesn't want to lead me on anymore. I played it cool and pretended that I too only wanted friendship. he laughed and said, great, glad we're on the same page. Okay. So, so he friends owned her and now maybe is coming back. I have my thoughts on this. Okay, we'll get back to it. Save those thoughts. I was bitter and spiteful at first, but eventually I got over it and Trevor and I became best friends. And instead of avoiding him and cutting him out, my pride got in the way and I didn't want to appear butt hurt, so I carried on like nothing happened. I have zero feelings for Trevor now. We're much better off being friends than lovers anyway. Before I only ever saw Burke when he was at work, him and I had a running joke where I owed him a date. He gave me a lift home one day because it was raining.

And he said, now you owe me dinner.

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