This is an I-Heart podcast. Guaranteed Human. I had a threesome, but I didn't tell my girlfriend. Now she's having doubts. What should I do? This is OKOP where we read the craziest stories on planet Earth. I'm Sam and John. What should O.P. do? Of course she's having freaking doubts because just assuming you're just putting one and two together you had a

threesome not with her you double cheated well it could be before the relationship oh oh okay

you're right you're right you're right okay if it was before and she's like being negative on you

that's whack like come on now your past th past threesome should not affect your current relationship.

Yeah. Threesomes do not define you. And then. Riley. Oh. And then in the relationship, you know, without her,

obviously you're a fucking a-hole. Yeah. Of course. She should leave you. But what should you do? I think it's

probably the before. Yeah. And she's you do? I think it's probably the

before. Yeah. And she's judging him. I think you sit down and be like, look, we have a good thing going. Like, I think it's a little unfair to be judged. You know, everyone has their Greg days. Dude. Gregs are going to Greg. Gregs are going to Greg. So cut to the throwaway says a year ago, my male 21, first serious relationship officially ended.

With it came, all the heartbreak and trauma you'd expect from being cheated on and

manipulated for months. I've never before been so hurt and swore off any relationship for

the foreseeable future. My ex left me with a severe fear of abandonment, commitment, and need

for sexual validation caused

by some pretty hurtful thing she did. Fast forward five months after lots of hooking up and

casual sex as a typical in college town, I had done very little healing and just covered

up my pain with sex until I met Francine. Ooh. She is the single most beautiful, kind, fun-loving girl I've ever met.

The second she introduced herself to me at the bar, I knew she was different.

We went on a date and hooked up, but it felt way more meaningful.

I began to develop feelings for her, and that terrified me.

Those feelings heightened when she expressed the same back to me with where I was mentally. The fact we

were about to be eight hours long distance over the summer and her own recent relationship trauma,

we expressed our liking of each other, but came to set terms of non-exclusivity. Okay. So they are not seeing

other people? No, non-exclusivity. So they can see other people. They can see other

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