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Hi, this is Jamaica.

And the title of my story is he ghosted me out of nowhere.

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Let's hear about this ghosting.

Ghosting sucks.

They don't like ghosts.

We need an exorcism. So basically, I went on a dating site, which was against my rules for myself, but I was bored after two years of being divorced and three kids. And so I met this guy on there and we'll name him Zach. Another Zach. So Zach reached out and we hit it off on the first day. I mean, it was a little rocky as far as us getting to where we're supposed to meet just because of some hiccups with gas on my part and whatnot. But it all ended up where our first date was a success. Woo. Nice. He held my hand in his truck and he was driving me home because my car got towed away. What the heck? He hailed my hand and his truck. But then his truck got towed away. I think her car got towed away. I'm sorry. Oh, no. That kind of sucks, dude. Yeah. But yeah. And this song was on and he basically said, I think this is going to be our song. It was like, and he held hand in his truck. And I'm like, this is first date handholding. And we have a

song. Oh, okay. So he dropped me off and we gave each other a hug. And you know, I get in and he

immediately stayed and that he wanted to see where this would go or where we would go. And he would

like for me to get rid of the dating site because he did the same. After the first date? First date, he's like, we can get rid of hinged, Tinder and Bumble because you're the only person I want to rumble with. That's a little bit too, maybe too quick. Well, not even that far into it. Maybe like a week after he met, he came over to my house and or my apartment and stayed. He was looking into getting an apartment nearby. Man's moving a little too fast. The IPR. Do you think it's a red flag to say get rid of your dating apps? I think that was the first red flag. Yeah. I think that's the first red flag. Second red flag. the first red flag second red flag i'm moving next to you

yeah and i was just like what you know but i didn't want to shake the waters or scare him away by like

freaking out so i just kind of made a mental note and by week two he told me he loved me i mean actually

i said i love you pretty quick no but it seems like his whole mo is moving way too fast. Yeah, red flag. With, with context. With context. Red flag. And that was kind of like a red flag because most guys don't say that until like six months to a year, maybe more, which is the usual time. Really? Yeah. Why? Oh, I just, you think it's earlier? I don't know. Well, maybe for guys, I don't know. I mean,

I've said it really early.

I've said it like a month in and I've said it like six months, seven months in. It just depends. Just depends. Riley, how are you? Three months? Three months. Yeah. But I was just kind of like, wow, I don't even know this guy.

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