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My boyfriend proposed me on Christmas, but I said no.

But it was for a good reason.

Should I have left him?

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I'm John and Sam should O.P. leave him.

I wonder, can you recover from saying no to proposal? Like, has anyone, like, has anyone ever said no to someone asked him to marry them? And they continued dating and then gotten married afterwards? That's a great. Does that happen? Yeah, I would say, like, if, like like the person's not ready, they're like, I still love you,

but like I don't want to be married.

I haven't heard that happen.

But I've never, I've never heard that happen.

Do you say yes in the moment?

Just because most of the time, maybe if you're like truly secluded, like literally

there's nobody else there.

But like if you're in a restaurant or like a

crowd of people, yeah. Do you low key just because you're already going to deny them. Do you deny

them and publicly humiliate them? Yeah. Yeah. I think so. Let's do it. Yeah. Deny them and

public. Well, am I am I, am I, am I leaning into it or I'm giving actual advice?

Dealer's choice.

Actual advice?

Actual advice.

I would say, say yes publicly.

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