EP 93: Marriage & Monogamy feat Lover's Quarrell
So What Now? with Carla and Dex
Idea to Launch Productions
4.8 • 592 Ratings
🗓️ 10 December 2019
⏱️ 74 minutes
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Summary
Today's episode I am joined by Dani & TJ from the Lovers Quarrel podcast! We are diving into everything marriage, monogamy, relationship conflicts, & how to keep a relationship fresh and spicy while life takes its course.
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- It's not enough to free the innocent. We must rebuild the lives that are shattered by a broken system.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey y'all. Thank you for joining me back for another episode. Now, this was one hell of a week after last week's episode. |
| 0:10.0 | I really loved everybody's feedback and I'm happy that you were able to laugh, of course, at my expense because these two thought that it was the perfect time to tag to me. |
| 0:18.2 | But, you know, I still love them. This week I have Danny and T.J. |
| 0:22.1 | from The Lovers Quarral podcast, and I wanted to bring them on for a few different reasons. |
| 0:26.7 | We are here all part of the 30s tribe, and many of us eventually want to get married, have a stable, |
| 0:32.0 | committed relationship, whatever that looks like to you. But I've been very vocal on my platform |
| 0:37.1 | about the fact that I love, love, |
| 0:39.0 | I love monogamy. And monogonymy, monogamy is not an easy task when you're in the wrong |
| 0:46.1 | relationship. I realize that. But with Danny and T.J., it brings us some insight as to what it |
| 0:52.3 | looks like to see a couple our age and that they've only been monogamous. |
| 0:57.4 | You know, like they're the only people that have ever been with each other. |
| 1:00.7 | That's it. |
| 1:01.7 | So outside of monogamy, I also wanted to talk to them about rough patches and making a marriage work or maybe a relationship that you might be in because not everyone wants marriage. |
| 1:09.7 | But even when sometimes you really don't like each other, they talk about times where they've been in the same house and don't even speak, but then they find a way to make it work when it feels right, like when it's falling apart. So also they talk about, you know, how they do certain date nights and keep it, you know, fresh and fun for each other. Now, I'm 100% aware that we're all different, |
| 1:29.7 | but I also think that some things within relationships and marriages are like universal. |
| 1:33.9 | I'm not sure if that's like the right term, but you know what I mean. |
| 1:36.7 | We also talked a little bit about domestic violence and how they've dealt with it with a few |
| 1:40.6 | things that have happened and, you know, the stigmas and the double standards behind it |
| 1:44.6 | um i'm actually working on a really special episode about domestic violence because i i just wanted to be |
| 1:49.4 | perfect when i put it out now anyways i had to ask myself when i finished the episode like |
| 1:54.9 | woof girl like are you ready to have like one penis for the rest of your life like can i do this |
| 2:00.7 | with my |
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