Yeah, you know, we're going to talk about books in a little while, but I think one of the most

appropriately titled books by Dave Harvey is when sinners say I do and

It's appropriately titled because that's exactly what's happening. You have two fallen people who are

Completely imperfect being joined together as one two lives being fused and we've talked before on the podcast about marriage

Of course, we did one on you know, godly marriage. We did one on what to look for in a spouse

But but today we want to specifically tackle

How do you navigate those points of tension because

Obviously no one on the planet is closer to you than your husband or your wife

No one knows you better no one sees your imperfections and flaws more and there's also this the issue of proximity

You're together right all the time you're you're sharing a home you're sharing a

Bed you're sharing your finances and so there's so many potentials for problems and Oscar

I love the fact that you pointed out look our marriage is meant to glorify the Lord everything in life is measured by that

But I think oftentimes because we have all these dreams and expectations

That's the one area where we can easily miss them and so let's yeah open this up and talk about what what are

The things that oftentimes cause the biggest problems and marriage

Where would man be without woman a joke I learned from the extraordinarily brave

Ray comfort hey, Ray why don't you tell our friends the punchline to that joke where would man be

Without woman still in the garden of Eden

I can't believe right you've said that joke from a pulpit

Hundreds of times. Yeah, but it gets qualified further on where it exalts women and makes me look stupid and it just evens out

That's not hard to do that so I don't yeah, so don't get beaten up

You know in the lobby. Why is it okay for a man to say men are stupid

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