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We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Ep 90: Overcoming Lust in the Digital Age, Rebuilding Trust in Romantic Relationships and Redemption with Manda Carpenter and Matt Droguett

We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

That Sounds Fun Network

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

5.0839 Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2022

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever grappled with lustful thoughts or actions? Do you struggle with intimacy and romantic connections? Are you wondering if there is redemption for you? Manda Carpenter and Matt Droguett have both walked through these exact things. While their experiences are different, they both found wholeness through faith (and therapy). In this conversation, we talk about: • Male and female perspectives of struggling with lust and porn • The impact lust has on romantic relationships and expectations • Healing found through honest conversations and asking for help • Struggles and reality of being a Christian in today’s world Manda walked through a season of seeking external validation which led to infidelity in her marriage. She talks openly about the web of guilt and shame that kept her entangled. Manda shares how one honest conversation, led to healing and restoration in her marriage. Matt spent a number of years silently struggling with a desire to look at explicit content. After breaking the cycle, he began to live in wholeness and now helps others do the same. This conversation and space were created to shed light on a topic that so many struggle with. As you listen, I hope you’ll feel less alone or better equipped to help someone you know who is going through this. Remember that there’s freedom and grace found in the name of Jesus. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @mandacarpenter and @mattdroguett on social media. We’d love to hear how this episode spoke to you. Love you,  B RESOURCES/LINKS  Manda Carpenter’s book: Soul Care to Save Your Life Matt Droguett’s course: Ditch Porn and Reclaim Your Life & Use Code: TFHOC Women’s Conference at TFHOC – Breathe Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:03.4

It's about time because we're going there.

0:09.6

Well, well, well, friends, it's another episode of we're going there.

0:13.9

And I'll let you know right from the start.

0:15.9

Oh, honey, it's a mature conversation.

0:18.2

So if you have sensitive ears in the room or in the car, wherever you're

0:20.9

listening to this podcast, make sure you put on some headphones because we're going there.

0:25.0

I'm your foist, Bianca Wadis-oltoff, and I'm so glad you tuned in. Did you hear what I did there?

0:29.9

I said, Fost. It's like friend and host. Do you love it? Can we make it a thing? Can we? Can we please? Okay, well, today on the podcast,

0:42.0

we are talking not only to one, but two amazing guests, and we are going to unpack the topic of pornography. Now, before you tune out or tune off because porn ain't your issue that you wrestle

0:48.3

with or that you think about, I want you, do me a favor. Will you stay tuned? Because although

0:53.0

you might not wrestle with it,

0:59.8

someone you love, whether a friend or a family member most likely does. And no, let's not get all judging and think of that one friend who everybody knows needs Jesus and they also need new

1:04.6

wardrobe because their outfits are showing all their Godgivance. No, that's not what I'm talking

1:08.2

about. I'm talking about people inside and outside of the church.

1:11.5

I'm even talking about save, sanctified saints who follow Jesus and are struggling in this conversation.

1:16.7

And so I want us to provide clarity and language around what it means to struggle with the issue of pornography.

1:22.0

Manda Carpenter is an author and speaks about healthy souls. And Matt Druget is a coach who helps men break ties with their porn addictions.

1:29.6

In fact, I found Matt online on IG, in fact,

1:32.7

and I saw the great work that he was doing to help men break free from the shame and

1:36.6

addiction to pornography.

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And I trusted him so much.

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