Ep 9 Love is Not Enough Part 3-- Dating Lessons from my 30's
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 7 May 2026
⏱️ 32 minutes
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Summary
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In this episode, we chat:
Why love... is not enough. Part 3. In this episode I continue discussing what I have come to realize is important ESPECIALLY concerning marriage, children, and a future with someone upon entering my 30's-- and what I believe will benefit you greatly, too! You're going to want a pen and pad for this one!
What you'll learn in this episode:
- Practical things I've learned to look for/look out for in my 30's that I believe often get OVERLOOKED when you're young. These 2 things can be the difference between your joy/peace/happiness and stress in your relationship.
- Things to look for early on in dating/courtship so you don't end up sidelined YEARS down the road
- Positive, real life examples of what relational responsibility and caregiving temparament might look like in the RIGHT relationship-- a continued discussion from last week's episode.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome back to the clearer, not louder podcast. My name is Beatrice and I'm your host |
| 0:06.5 | and this week we are continuing on with the Love is Not Enough series. This is part three, episode |
| 0:15.7 | nine. If you're new to this series, I would recommend catching up with the last two episodes. |
| 0:22.3 | And this week's episode is just a continuation |
| 0:25.2 | of the things I learned to look for, |
| 0:28.1 | especially as marriage is concerned, |
| 0:30.3 | once I entered 30s, once wisdom came and slapped me |
| 0:33.5 | on the face and came and just baptized me in a manner and in a way that I hadn't been before. |
| 0:41.7 | And this week's episode is going to be fun. |
| 0:44.2 | Before I jump into it, though, I wanted to expand on two things I spoke about last week because |
| 0:49.0 | I feel like it needs more air. |
| 0:50.9 | I feel like it needs a little bit more commentary. |
| 0:56.8 | So last week, remember when I spoke about relational responsibility? And if you don't know what I'm talking about, go listen to |
| 1:00.9 | last week's episode. Okay. And just as a reminder, relational responsibility describes someone |
| 1:06.4 | who feels responsible for the person that they're with. And I just had to bring this one back because |
| 1:13.2 | this matters so much and it impacts your day to day. Example. Someone who feels, and I wanted to |
| 1:21.1 | give more positive examples as well. Someone who feels relationally responsible. Let's say you |
| 1:26.6 | have kids. Um, it's you and your husband. |
| 1:29.0 | You have kids. Have you ever been? Okay, are you with theme park, girly? Because I love me a six |
| 1:34.1 | flags. Love me a little, you know, roller coaster. I love, I love theme parks. The last time I went was |
| 1:39.7 | with my little nieces and nephews last year. And I recall seeing the horror. This is, this was last year, |
| 1:47.2 | but it's still in my mind every day. The horror of husbands, wives, children were together. And |
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