EP 88: Dating, Polygamy, and Living with Herpes in your 30's feat Carolyn Toney
So What Now? with Carla and Dex
Idea to Launch Productions
4.8 • 592 Ratings
🗓️ 5 November 2019
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
New BONUS Exclusive Episode on Patreon all about
SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW
- Student IDs list phone sex number instead of suicide hotline
Carolyn Toney
- The feelings and reaction to finding out you are herpes positive.
- Different Types of Herpes
- How to communicate to others your status
- Living a polygamous lifestyle
- Experiences in Sex Clubs and being open about STD Status
- Dealing with friendships and your status
UNSOLICITED ADVICE
- Woman wants to know how to date a man that has mutual friends and how to open up about herpes status fearing that her friends will find out.
SH*T Talk
- How to properly approach me through DM's or emails for business purposes! GROW UP AND BE PROFESSIONAL!
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Shit I'm 30 podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | This is the weekly show where we discuss and share our unfiltered opinions on topics such as mental health, relationships. |
| 0:11.5 | Sometimes it gets a little kinky and we talk about sex, parenting, and so much more. |
| 0:16.3 | With me, your host, Carla Valmeris. |
| 0:18.1 | Now, my goal is to get rid of society's expectations about where we should |
| 0:21.3 | be when we're in our 30s and just free ourselves to live the lives that we've always dreamed of. |
| 0:25.2 | Now, friends, remember, it is never too late. Welcome, guys, back to shit I'm 30. I am doing the |
| 0:33.7 | very first interview virtually. So I am home and I'm actually face to face with my guest. |
| 0:40.6 | We just had a full on conversation. Yes, her name is Carolyn. Hello. I'm really nervous about it because |
| 0:47.5 | technology scares me. You never know when the tech gods are going to be like against you and something |
| 0:53.2 | will go wrong. But you know what? Today I feel like this is something that I've been wanting to do that for a couple of weeks. So it's going to go through. I was just on Instagram and you probably looking at me crazy. I am like pale, like almost white. And I'm trying to figure out like do I have jaundice is something wrong with me i don't know what's wrong |
| 1:12.3 | and i'm pretty sure i have something to do i've spoken about the fact that i haven't had sun and |
| 1:16.6 | over a year since last october the only time i've been to the beach or anything like that was |
| 1:21.6 | june with me and the ind of bahamas outside of that i live in this room you know and now it's about to be winter again and I think |
| 1:29.4 | I have a deficiency of like vitamin D or something like I need sun the vitamin and in the dick part |
| 1:35.7 | too so both vitamin right so I think I'm going to fulfill them both this weekend and see how I feel |
| 1:41.9 | again on Monday but as of right, I excuse my paleness. |
| 1:48.0 | I'm not white. |
| 1:48.9 | Before we go into, you know, why you're here and why I wanted to bring you, we're |
| 1:54.5 | going to do our shit you should know. |
| 1:56.7 | And I thought it was really funny today while I was looking through articles. |
| 1:59.5 | And I saw that student IDs for a middle school, they listed a phone sex number instead of a suicide hotline in a school in California. |
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