Welcome to the shit I'm 30 podcast, a weekly show where we discuss and share our

unfiltered opinions on topics such as mental health, relationships, sex, careers, and so much more.

With me, your host, Carla Womeres. Let's get rid of society's expectations about where we should be in our 30s

and free ourselves to live the lives we've always dreamed of. Remember, it's never too late.

I am still out here in Atlanta. On my way here, I'm late as hell, so I do have to apologize

than I did to my guest, which I'm going to introduce her in two seconds.

I just got cussed out by two men driving here.

It's either I'm going to get cussed out or they're going to try to holl at me and fuck me. One of the two. So I'm not sure what's going on in Atlanta. And then if they're trying to holl at me, I'm still a little worried. Like, are you sure you want me?

Are you sure?

But this week I have with me, Nicole, is it Nicola or Nicola?

Nicola.

Nicola. Nicola. Okay. Your mom had to make it different. Right. Exactly. You don't want to be like, pull it towards you a little bit? Oh, can, you can just pull it the whole thing, like a snake. There you go. Oh, that's perfect. Boom. Okay. So thank you for coming first of all. No problem. Thank you for having me. Yes.

I saw you online and i'm like okay this is actually an episode

that i've been wanting to do for a while okay but i was scared so i was like i'm not doing it it's

been like over a year and i'm like oh put it off put it off put it off. And then I say, I'm like, she looks cool.

Let me just do this. But before we get into why you're here, we're going to do our shit you should know. Okay. So this week I saw, have you done jury duty before? No, I haven't. Okay, well, I've always worried about this, but the headline says 21-year-old South Florida man, of course, who slapped with jail time

and a year of probation

after oversleeping for jury duty.

And I was like, what the hell?

I'm scared of that because I've never shown up for jury duty, have you?

Well, see, by the grace of God, I've never even gotten a letter.

So I haven't even, but I always be like wanting to duck and dodge jury doing because I just

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