Everything about me is from the divine, so everything about me is perfect.

And instead of fighting myself on the ways I am, I work with myself on the ways I am.

I don't fight myself because I like myself.

I like myself.

So when I wanted my butt to grow, I wasn't going, what is fucking wrong with my butt?

Are we ever going to get there? What is this? I was looking in we ever gonna get there what is this I was

looking in the mirror going this is a completely different it's like different

than it's ever been I swear it way more effective in business and money and everything to do the few strategic things that I feel working and then to do a bunch of things that everyone said, right?

So I just pulled an Amanda Francis and I found the butt workouts that worked for me and then my

back grew. So that's how it happened. So what I want to talk to you about more than that

is the foundation of where change comes from like how do we create real lasting

change in life so my belief and I've held this belief for years and years and years is

Carl Rogers my favorite psychologist said it this way you may have heard me say this before

he said the curious paradox is when I accept myself, accept myself just as I am, then I

can change.

The paradox is when we accept ourselves as we are, then we can change.

So you can imagine if you're going to the gem or choosing to eat more vegetables and

you're saying, I'm so fat fat this isn't good enough this isn't

working for me why don't why am I not a naturally skinny girl why don't I have the kind of body

I want why is this harder for me than other people what's wrong with me why do I hate going to the

gym or like whatever all of that is I mean I can just feel the energy of

all of those feelings and it's so heavy and it's so full of self-doubt and it's so full of

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