Welcome to Big Fat Positive with Shauna and Laura. This week we have our weekly check-ins. We have a brand new special segment. It takes a village where we need your help listeners. And we close with our BFPs and BFNs for the week. Let's get started. Hi, welcome to the show, everyone. This is episode 81. Hi, Shauna. Hey. Tell us about your week. How old is your baby now? She's 12 months in one week and we're doing well. I forgot last week to give a little update about her 12 month appointment. So I just want to comment a couple things on that. First of all,

you know, last time she was rocking the 80th percentile for weight. Oh, yeah. And so she's gone

down to 50th percentile. Oh, interesting. Which is interesting. And I'm really hoping that it

helps curb all of the comments from strangers about how big my baby is.

You're gigantic baby.

Yeah, I talked about that in a they said what segment a few episodes back.

So I haven't been getting as many comments on her size.

They do all still think she's a boy, though.

I don't know what it is about my neighborhood.

I think I even sent you a picture, Laura.

I was walking Cece in her bright pink car.

She had like a pink hat on.

You know, she was just like screamed girl.

And the woman at the register was like, hello, young man.

So odd.

I mean, hey.

Context clues, people. Like, gender's a construct, but also, like,

she's wearing bright pink. I don't know. They tell you about the other day, my baby was wearing,

like, he was like wearing a tweed overall and an orangeish, like a beige shirt. And two people

thought he was a girl, which, you know, it's fine,

but someone came up and was like, hello, princess. And I was like, huh? He's wearing tweed.

Oh, people are so bold in their gender assignments. It's wild. Same thing. I was standing on the corner waiting

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