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Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey

Ep 788 | The 'Sextortion' Scheme that Killed His Son | Guest: Brian Montgomery

Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey

Blaze Podcast Network

News, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, News Commentary

4.619.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 April 2023

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Today we're joined by Brian Montgomery, a father from Mississippi who lost his 16-year-old son Walker to suicide last December after Walker was the victim of an online "sextortion" scam. "Sextortion" is a form of blackmail where someone threatens to share a nude or sexually explicit picture or video of the victim unless the predator’s demands are met, and often teenage boys are the targets. While this is obviously the most horrifying thing that can happen to one's child, Brian walks us through how he and his wife found their son the next morning and how they uncovered what actually happened to him. We discuss why all parents need to be aware of evil scams like this one, even if their kids don't show problematic behavior, and Brian explains why he finds it important to share Walker's story. We also talk about how the Montgomerys have processed what happened and clung to their faith. --- Timecodes: (00:59) Interview with Brian begins / about his family (04:38) No warnings (07:45) Finding Walker (14:54) Finding out what happened (29:55) Allowing children to be alone with a phone (34:44) Criminal liability & similar stories (37:27) Warning your kids about this (41:23) Male and female blind spots (44:20) Coping --- Today's Sponsors: Seven Weeks Coffee — Seven Weeks is a pro-life coffee company with a simple mission: DONATE 10% of every sale to pregnancy care centers across America. Get your organically farmed and pesticide-free coffee at sevenweekscoffee.com and let your coffee serve a greater purpose. Use the promo code 'ALLIE' to save 10% off your order. Epic Will — be intentional about your family, your values and your wishes. Go to EpicWill.com/ALLIE and you’ll save 10% on your complete Will package. Naturally It's Clean — visit https://naturallyitsclean.com/allie and use promo code "ALLIE" to receive 15% off your order. If you are an Amazon shopper you can visit https://amzn.to/3IyjFUJ. The promo code discount is only valid on their direct website at www.naturallyitsclean.com/Allie. --- Links: FBI AND PARTNERS ISSUE NATIONAL PUBLIC SAFETY ALERT ON FINANCIAL SEXTORTION SCHEMES: https://www.justice.gov/usao-vi/pr/fbi-and-partners-issue-national-public-safety-alert-financial-sextortion-schemes --- Buy Allie's book, You're Not Enough (& That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love: https://alliebethstuckey.com/book Relatable merchandise – use promo code 'ALLIE10' for a discount: https://shop.blazemedia.com/collections/allie-stuckey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Walker Montgomery was a 17 year old boy that had everything going for him until he died by suicide on December 1st, 2022 after falling victim to a sex

0:13.3

extortion scheme on Instagram and now his dad Brian Montgomery is trying to prevent this tragedy from happening to other teens and so Brian is here today to share his tragic but

0:27.9

extremely important story and to help parents understand the signs to look for and how they can possibly prevent this from happening to their own families.

0:39.8

This episode is brought to you by our friends at Good Ranchers go to goodrangers.com use could Ali at check out that's good ranchers dot com code Ali.

0:48.7

Brian thanks so much for taking the time to join us I think I ran across your story on fox news dot com and I thought wow my audience which is mostly made up of moms and there are some dads out there too.

1:13.7

They need to know that this is going on so let's start from the beginning tell me about your son Walker and everything that has happened.

1:27.7

Yeah so I mean you know we always talk about this thing is it's almost like watching a movie you know it's like something you'd see on TV that you can't you never think it would happen to you just to kind of a normal family really I mean we our family has been blessed.

1:45.7

When I'm beyond measure just to be honest and really lived what I would think of as a fairy tale life I mean been given every blessing you can imagine and I mean our family was very normal Walker was very normal and we knew that but obviously when something like this happens you start questioning everything but yeah we have my wife and I have four kids two boys and two girls Carolinas are older she's 18 Walker was 16.

2:12.7

Being a younger brother is 13 and then we have a younger daughter in the area she's 11 so I mean our story is we raise our kids in church we raise our kids to respect adults to do everything you think that kids should be raised to do you know especially in a world today where that's a little more difficult than it used to be it seems especially my generation.

2:36.7

Yeah but you know to speak to Walker I mean Walker love football we love the outdoor some of the pictures you probably seen of some of those that you referenced we were on the interview with Fox we we farm we only in we work you know we hunt we fish Walker had a passion for football really that was a passion to develop you about a seventh grade year started really to evolve and something he was really serious about and so we obviously we're not going to be able to do that.

3:06.7

Obviously support him in that and he was very dedicated to that I mean I guess if you could describe Walker in the context of who he was he had a tremendous work ethic and he was always supportive of his friends and people in school and something we always loved about Walker is you know he was the kid that the parents and the teachers were always bragging on and proud to have him in their class and he was just he wasn't perfect obviously we wouldn't be here if he was but just nothing that would indicate anything like this was even from the beginning.

3:36.7

Because he has many kids back there who's probably having a problem or that Common

4:03.7

who we thought he was and of course we had a lot of questions. I'll get into what happened

4:08.2

in just a minute but we had a lot of questions about how this, what was going on

4:13.7

because obviously we didn't know what happened for a while after Walker's death

4:18.7

and this just happened to be some of the first of this past fall.

4:22.7

So all those questions and trying to understand what could have possibly driven him

4:30.7

to think this is the right answer.

4:33.7

Yes. When parents hear stories like this, when we come across these kinds of tragic stories,

4:40.7

I think the first natural reaction that people have is what you already mentioned.

4:47.7

Well, there must have been something else because I think what we're trying to do is

4:52.7

that could never happen to me, that could never happen to my kid.

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