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We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

Ep 78: When Life Lets You Down with Jordan Lee Dooley

We're Going There with Bianca Juarez

That Sounds Fun Network

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

5.0839 Ratings

🗓️ 16 May 2022

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

Hi Friends! We’ve all gone through hard seasons in life. And some of us have even been through a season wanting to fulfill a dream or get a promotion or the family that we’ve always wanted and then not being able to get what we want when it seems like we’re almost there. In today’s episode, my guest Jordan Lee Dooley will be sharing with us some practical steps on how to navigate painful setbacks and hardships. Jordan shares how difficult experiences, waiting seasons, and our greatest disappointments can bring clarity to what we really want in life. If you find yourself frustrated because you are not where you thought you should be in life, this episode is for you. Life is filled with unmet expectations, disrupted dreams, uncertainty, and in-between seasons. Lean in and listen to how Jordan’s experiences taught her to take a long pause, audit her life, and learn how to gain greater clarity about what she truly wanted, why she wanted it, and how to begin pursuing it. Friend, if you are in a season of in-betweens, not-quites, and unknowns you are not alone. You belong to this community and we’re here for you. Let Jordan know how this episode has impacted you by tagging us @BiancaOlthoff and @JordanLeeDooley Talk to you next week, friend! Love you, B LINKS / RESOURCES: Book - Embrace Your Almost: https://jordanleedooley.com/eya Safe Families for Children: https://safe-families.org/ Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Access more.

0:04.2

It's about time because we're going there.

0:07.2

Hi, family.

0:08.2

Welcome back to We're Going There.

0:09.8

I'm your host, Bianca Wadis Oldoff, and today we're tackling a top topic.

0:14.0

I mean, we can't call the show, we're going there and shy away from life's letdowns now, can we?

0:19.0

Somebody once said this very joyous expression.

0:22.6

Expectation is the root of all heartache. Yeah, that's what I hear when I hear that quote.

0:29.9

The quote summarizes the truth that when we experience disappointment, our hopes and expectations

0:35.3

are out of line with what people refer to as our reality.

0:39.1

But don't let that get you down. We feel this way from time to time. And some of these disappointments,

0:43.9

they won't make much of a difference in your life, but there are also disappointments that could

0:47.9

actually change the course of our life. And that's what I want to talk about today. The way that

0:52.5

we handle disappointment is most likely related to our developmental history,

0:56.2

as in our relationship with our parents and who educated us when you were young or early

1:00.9

formative experiences.

1:02.4

According to a Harvard Business Review article, some people seek to avoid disappointment

1:06.7

by turning into underachievers.

1:09.2

They unconsciously set the bar low and avoid taking risk

1:12.3

to prevent themselves or others from being disappointed.

1:15.8

But see, here's the problem.

1:16.9

Without realizing it, they've decided that the best strategy

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