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🗓️ 25 September 2025
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Most people think they're looking for love—but what they're really chasing is validation and approval. In this video I'll show you how childhood patterns shape that chase, and why letting people choose you (or not) makes you magnetic.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome back to another episode on the Aaron Dowdy podcast. |
| 0:09.9 | My name's Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. |
| 0:14.6 | And that is exactly what we're going to do each week. |
| 0:17.6 | Now, I do have to let you know this isn't about thinking better thoughts. |
| 0:22.5 | This isn't about the surface level of manifestation. This is about getting to the core of who |
| 0:28.0 | you are to transform your life from the inside out. We're going to do that by learning the magic |
| 0:33.7 | of letting go, of detachment, of the power of wiring in a brand new version of ourselves, |
| 0:40.4 | understanding that we came here to be bold, we came here to live our life purpose, and we came |
| 0:46.4 | here to live in alignment. To join me each week as we do that going deeper into understanding |
| 0:52.9 | who we are, deeper into raising our own vibration |
| 0:56.5 | and elevating our consciousness |
| 0:58.5 | so that we can be who we really came here to be. |
| 1:06.7 | The people that are meant to be in your life, you don't have to fight for to keep them around. |
| 1:14.6 | You don't have to fight for them to show up. |
| 1:18.6 | The people that are meant to be in your life will be in your life because they are able to see and be present with the real youth. |
| 1:30.3 | Now, a lot of times what can happen is as kids, if you felt like you had to be a different way |
| 1:37.0 | in order to gain the approval or validation of mom and dad, you might think that you need to be that way as an adult and |
| 1:48.0 | create energy dynamics and energy patterns to play that pattern out. |
| 1:54.3 | You might even attract people into your life that are hard to please because the belief |
| 1:59.7 | is that if you could please them, then you could feel safe. |
| 2:04.9 | Then you could feel enough. |
| 2:08.4 | So understand that a huge shift will happen in your life. |
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