Ep: 75 Sex and Shame
The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 1 October 2018
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
We are glad you found our season 1 episodes where we share early parts of our processes of learning about and exploring the impacts of betrayal on our relationship, and the challenges of healing both sides of the relationship after sex addiction and infidelity.
Our journey has taken us a long ways from the time we recorded these episodes, but many have still found help and hope for healing in the information. We hope you always seek healing first for yourself, and where possible for the relationship, though staying together or choosing divorce or separation can occur at the point of betrayal and at times even after healing from betrayal and addictions.
If you would like support in healing from betrayal we’d invite you to look at our program https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
It is not a program about staying together or leaving your partner, but rather finding the healing we need as an individual who has been made aware of our partner cheating.
If you would like support from a licensed therapist contact Brannon’s office at www.utahtherapy.org
To find out about Ashlynn’s groups https://www.thisisashlynn.com/mentoring
To get support from Coby check out www.growwithcoby.com
Thanks for your continued support for the podcast throughout all of our journey.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | What's up everybody? This is the Betray, the addicted, and the expert. My name is Brannon and I am the expert. |
| 0:11.0 | And I'm Ashland and I was the portrayed and I'm Kobe the recovering addict. |
| 0:17.6 | What you're going to get is three unique perspectives on recovery and |
| 0:21.9 | tools for hope and healing. |
| 0:25.0 | All right, welcome back to Sex Timber and our podcast episodes this month are all about sex. |
| 0:34.0 | So, but before we get to our topic today, |
| 0:37.1 | I want to read a fan shout out. |
| 0:39.4 | We got one from Broken But Healing, and he says, |
| 0:42.4 | I've been listening to your podcast almost |
| 0:45.2 | since I'd disclose my affairs in 2017. |
| 0:48.6 | I love the messages of Healing and Hope. |
| 0:50.4 | I also want to thank you for discussing EMMDR to help us deal with past trauma. |
| 0:55.0 | Since finding a counselor who does EMDR, I've made huge strides in my recovery and know it's because |
| 1:00.1 | EMDR helps me deal with my trauma. |
| 1:02.8 | This podcast is incredible, and these three are beyond brave. |
| 1:06.4 | Kobe for facing his trauma and shame |
| 1:08.8 | and fighting to save his marriage rather than run. |
| 1:11.4 | Ashton for letting other betrayed women find hope through |
| 1:15.4 | her openness and for staying in your marriage when many probably |
| 1:19.3 | questioned your sanity for staying. They do this with my wife. Brandon for giving us us addicts hope |
| 1:25.8 | and fighting to help us recover. Thank you all. That's cool. Isn't that awesome? |
| 1:30.1 | Yeah that's honestly I love we hear a lot from the betrayed, but it's really exceptional. I think to hear from the once addicted who really has an appreciation for what we're trying to do. |
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