Hi guys, welcome to the Wabi Sabby podcast episode number 71. When things go wrong, you always can make them right.

Today we'll be focusing on how we can turn it around and stop playing victim for the rest of our lives.

Now is the time for you to pick up the pieces, put some lipstick on, as Elizabeth Taylor says,

and put yourself back together.

It's not easy these days. I get it.

We are coming off the tail end of the horrible pandemic.

Not so bad compared to what is really always been going on in the world. Wars, disagreements,

crazy, crazy times. It's all good. It's okay. I'm sure you've seen that Mercury is ending retrograde

on February 3rd. We are almost there. If you've made it this far, you better just keep going.

Today on the Wabi Sabby Podcasts, we will learn how to manage. That means how to mend, compartmentalize,

put things in a little tiny box, and throw it away. I don't want you to torture yourself with

anxiety for the rest of your life. Waring will never get you anywhere. It's a big waste of time.

And if you want to get anywhere in this life,

I suggest that you start learning how to mend, putting things back together, how to make things right, how to make everything work for you. This is a powerful shift that you could make. First and

foremost, you should speak to someone you truly care about

or love or they love you back about your worries. You know, whether it's Dana, Meredith,

Crystal, Steph, or Courtney, I wrote a nice letter to all of my best friends and every single one

of them replied or called right away

and they said let me help some needed a few days or a week to digest my issues and then others

immediately saw it and said we're going to help sometimes it's helpful to do a recap i don don't do this often, but once every few years,

I'll send out an email listing the issues that I'm having. Your peers, meaning all my friends,

are the same age in that particular group. And they don't all know each other well. Some of them

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