EP 71 // Feeling Guilt And Shame Over Not Wanting To Play With Your Kids? Break Free From Being The Perfect Mom With This Simple System

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Chelsi Jo

Kids & Family, Parenting, Entrepreneurship, Business, Kids & Family:parenting

4.7 • 654 Ratings

🗓️ 18 December 2020

⏱️ 26 minutes

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The dreaded question, "mom will you play with me?" And there you sit, with a to-do list so long, clients, laundry, social media alerts, and pasta boiling on the stove ... and now this. It feels horrible saying no, but saying yes kills you just as much. You are not alone, but it sure feels like it. The culture of motherhood shames this conversation, so I decided to have it. In today's episode I am giving you the inside heart of me in my motherhood on this topic. I am also giving you a super simple 3 step system to give you pride and confidence back in your motherhood. Share this episode, because together we can make a change to the culture of motherhood! xoxo, Chelsi Jo . . . Join Our Free Systemize Your Life Community www.facebook.com/groups/systemizeyourlife . . Get Your FREE Time Blocking Workbook Here www.chelsijo.co/timeblockingworkbook . . Get Your FREE Fundamental Needs Workbook Here www.chelsijo.co/myprioritiesworkbook . . Join The Complete Home Management System That Takes Your From Overwhelmed To Organized In Four Weeks! JOIN SYSTEMIZE YOUR LIFE HERE www.chelsijo.co/syl . . Join The Complete Task Management System That Takes Your Business From Overwhelmed To Organized! JOIN SYSTEMIZE YOUR BIZ HERE www.chelsijo.co/syb

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0:00.0	I know you've been there sitting there, enjoying whatever it is that you're doing.
0:05.7	Maybe you're not even enjoying it. Maybe you're just trying to get the dishes done.
0:10.1	Maybe you're just trying to get lunch on the table or breakfast or whatever 1,200th meal of the day
0:15.8	onto the table when the dreaded, mom, will you play with me?
0:22.3	Comes up and then it hits you.
0:26.0	I don't want to say no and I don't want to say yes.
0:29.7	What do I do?
0:31.8	I have decided to reveal a portion of my motherhood and a portion of who I am in this podcast episode that is
0:40.9	very, very, very personal to me. I am giving you the system that I use that I don't talk about
0:47.8	because I too have felt the guilt and the shame of not wanting to play with my kids. And also trying really, really hard to be
0:57.9	everything for my children that they need me to be and that I want to be. And so in the nature of who I
1:05.2	am to help me with this problem that I faced in my own motherhood many years ago, I created a system.
1:14.6	And today I'm going to share that system with you, the system that's helped me break free
1:19.0	from feeling like I have to be the perfect mom inside of this perfect family and do all of the
1:26.3	perfect things to be able to live up to this idea
1:29.2	that we're going to break down today. So let's get started with this system inside of today's
1:35.8	episode. Systemize your life with Chelsea Joe. That's me. And this is a podcast for modern women who are eager to live
1:47.4	with more meaning and less overwhelm. We're about to tap into some fiercely meaningful relationships,
1:54.9	bang-in organization and time management strategies, and a rock solid plan for our personal well-being with functional systems
2:02.9	to those problems we all go through. Girl, if you feel like you're watching life go by from a window
2:09.5	on the Hot Mess Express, then it's time to roll up your sleeves, dig in, and get your life out of
2:16.1	the chaos and into confidence.
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