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Your Anxiety Toolkit - Anxiety & OCD Strategies for Everyday

Ep. 69: Everything You Need To Know About Self-Compassion (Interview with Paul Gilbert)

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Anxiety & OCD Strategies for Everyday

Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT | Anxiety & OCD Specialist

Self-improvement, Education, Anxietymindfulnessmeditation, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9802 Ratings

🗓️ 5 October 2018

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Everything You Need To Know About Self-Compassion (Interview with Paul Gilbert)

Self-Compassion Interview with Paul Gilbert Compassion-Focused Therapy CFT Obsessive Compulsive Disorder OCD Anxiety Specific Phobias BFRB's Your Anxiety Toolkit Kimberley QuinlanThis week’s episode of Your Anxiety Toolkit is going to blow your mind!  Yes!  You better believe it! If you have been thinking you should start a self-compassion practice for yourself, THIS is the episode for you.  Today we are going to discuss everything you need to know about self-compassion. This week I am so honored to talk with Paul Gilbert, Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Derby and Consultant Clinical Psychologist at the Derbyshire Health Care Foundation Trust. Paul Gilbert is what I consider a Self-Compassion and Shame “Guru.”  We all know shame and we all know how difficult shame can be when it comes to Anxiety Disorders, such as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD), Social Anxiety, Specific Phobias, Panic Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), and Body Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRB’s), such as Trichotillomania (hair pulling) and Dermatillomania (compulsive skin picking).  Paul shares with us his beautiful insight and understanding of the human brain and how to apply self-compassion in our daily living.  So much of what Paul has to say compliments the discussions we have had on the podcast already. Professor Gilbert performed psychopathology research for over 35 years with a special focus on shame and the treatment of shame-based difficulties. Paul Gilbert was the founder of Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT) and I am certain you are going to LOVE what he has to say.  Paul Gilbert has written and edited 20 books and established the Compassionate Mind Foundation in 2006. He was awarded an OBE in March 2011. During this interview, Paul shares everything you need to know about self-compassion. Paul explains his work and research on self-compassion and how he came to practice and develop Compassion-Focused Therapy.  Paul addresses why he thinks we are so hostile or self-critical towards oneself and what he considers the most important tools for practicing self-compassion The most beautiful part of this podcast episode is that we ALL need to be better at practicing self-compassion. As a reminder, it's BFRB Awareness Week (October 1-7)!  Click here for more information on BFRB School, which is a complete online course for Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRB's). Lastly, OCD Awareness Week is coming up from October 7-13!  OCD SoCal will celebration OCD Awareness Week on October 7 from 1:00 pm-5:00 pm in Los Angeles, Orange County, and San Diego.  Go to IOCDF.org or search your local area for events.

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0:00.0

This is Your Anxiety Toolkit, episode number 69.

0:09.8

Welcome to Your Anxiety Toolkit.

0:12.4

I'm your host, Kimberly Quinlan.

0:14.6

This podcast is fueled by three main goals.

0:17.9

The first goal is to provide you with some extra tools to help you manage

0:21.7

your anxiety. Second goal, to inspire you. Anxiety doesn't get to decide how you live your life.

0:29.2

And number three, and I leave the best for last, is to provide you with one big, fat virtual

0:35.5

hug, because experiencing anxiety ain't easy. If that sounds good to you, let's go.

0:46.7

Welcome back. It's so nice to have you with me here again on this beautiful day. And I'm actually

0:53.8

super honored that you would spend this time with me.

0:57.6

I know you probably have a lot going on and a very busy life and managing some really tough

1:04.3

things. So if that is the case, I am so honored to get to spend this time with you and to be on

1:10.3

this journey with you. And I just first honored to get to spend this time with you and to be on this journey with you.

1:12.2

And I just first want to take a minute just for us to take a little deep breath and just

1:18.2

honor where we're at and honor what's going on for you and what's going on for me and what's

1:25.1

going on for everybody because I don't think we stop long enough

1:30.1

to really honor that. Am I right? So, you know, I just want you to know before we get started

1:39.4

that it's totally okay and you get absolute permission to slow down and take this time to honor

1:48.0

what you're feeling and what you're thinking and what your experience is.

1:52.9

It's not selfish to do that.

1:54.8

It's not arrogant to do that.

1:57.0

I think it's really important to do that.

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