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So What Now? with Carla and Dex

EP 69: Colorism in America feat Ericka Dunlap (Miss America)

So What Now? with Carla and Dex

Idea to Launch Productions

Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.8592 Ratings

🗓️ 25 June 2019

⏱️ 99 minutes

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Summary

SH*T YOU SHOULD KNOW 

  • Georgia City Councilman Pens Eye-Opening Post About Needing Food Stamps

Colorism in the Black Community with Former Miss. America Erica Dunlap 

  • Growing up in a Lightskin vs Darkskin Household
  • Dating and being fetishize for the Color of your Skin
  • Black women Representation in Beauty Pageant Industry
  • Colorism between men and women 
  • Colorism being a world wide issues, not just for African American
  • Colorism vs Racism

UNSOLICITED ADVICE

  • Pregnant after 2month of dating what should I do?

SH*T TAAALK

  • Ask for heat. Ask for summer. Forget the deodorant and to shower more than once a day. 
  • Current feel 103
  • Boycotting Nellies Sports Bar in DC

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome back to another episode of Shut I'm 30 with me, your host, Carla Walmeris. And Tony the realtor. Hello, welcome back to Orlando, friend. Hey, friend, you know, we have not talked in days. We haven't talked in days. You left with all you gave friends and you were like, fuck the little bitch over there. You told me remind you of you have a boy and you didn't even call me. Look, look, you called me when I was getting ready to work out. And I'm like, I'm going to call you back.

0:20.9

And you were telling me about some type of sponsorship for Morgan and Morgan. Yes. And you're like, I got to go. I'm like, this is huge. And I was getting ready to work out. That gym, by the, girl, I got my. You said it was mini Wakanda? It was Mini Wakanda. Listen, I was in D.C. for the weekend for the gay Super Bowl, uh, black gay pride.

0:39.2

Um, it's also the black gay met gala as well, where everybody come in there like, you know, best fashions child and just put on shows. So is it gay like only, man, we were talking about this yesterday when I was at dinner. I'm like, um, I don't know. I was like, I think it's just man, because I haven't seen any women in your snaps.

0:53.4

So the women have a different pride.

0:56.6

They just recently had sweet heat.

0:58.1

Yes. I was like, I think it's just men because I haven't seen any women in your snaps. So, yeah, women, the women have a different pride.

0:56.5

They just recently had Sweet Heat in Miami.

0:58.6

Yeah, it's women, right?

0:59.6

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1:00.4

So we have our little different things.

1:01.9

But here in Florida, though, when we do pride, we kind of come together.

1:05.2

We're still.

1:06.1

Isn't it coming up soon?

1:07.3

It is coming up.

1:08.4

Well, it's not probably, it's called Gay Days. And Gaydace is not a black people thing, by the way, you guys. Isn't that a Disney thing? It's not, well, it's not really a Disney thing, but yeah, they kind of like promote under Disney. So yeah, yeah, they get together and do a whole bunch of food. Well, you have fun? I did. I spent a lot of money, motherfucker. Oh, you're rich. Bitch, listen, next year I'm going to switch up some things. My friends that I party with this year, the motherfuckers are getting old. And it's certain things that I... They're going to cut you high. No, they are. Like, you know, Carlos is about to turn 40. Lorenzo's like 37. And, nigga, I'm 31. So it's still things, you know, I got some turn up in me.

1:45.9

I want to pop bottles on bitches and stuff like that. And, you know, and go from club to club. And those motherfuckers want to take a nap. I'll be right there. Carlos, I'm with you. I want to take a nap right along with y'all. I don't want to club to club. Yeah, and that motherfucker, the only thing he wanted to do is just be up on the boys, and I just wanted to turn up.

2:02.5

Did you get any boyfriends?

2:03.5

No, actually I did not, Carla. child i don't want to club to club yeah and i'm gonna for the only thing he wanted to do is just be

2:00.8

up on the boys and i just wanted to turn up did you get any boyfriends no actually i did not carla not

2:05.3

one it this this the theme for me this week has been me being gayly awkward i guess oh yeah

2:11.9

apparently i don't um i don't flirt with gay guys like i'm supposed to have a mean look on my face oh we did talk

2:18.7

about that yeah yeah yeah and I I do things differently didn't the rest of them um but I love them

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