EP 67: Pleasure Over Pressure
So What Now? with Carla and Dex
Idea to Launch Productions
4.8 • 592 Ratings
🗓️ 24 March 2026
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Summary
We're back for another week of So What Now? and this episode? Yeah… it goes there.Carla kicks things off with a life update, sharing Plasm's progress in school, while Dex is on the complete opposite vibe—outside, having a time, and leaning into joy. From there, things take a turn as Carla recounts her experience at a sex club (yes, we had questions), and somehow it opens the door to a bigger conversation: women, pleasure, and owning what feels goodwithout guilt.
In honor of Women's Month, we're talking role play, toys, and the importance of actually knowing what you like. But it's not just about pleasure—it's also about the hard stuff. This week's "Woman of the Week" is for the ones who walked away from relationships that weren't toxic… just not right. Because let's be real, those are the hardest to leave.
So we had to ask: were you actually happy… or just comfortable? Because those two are not the same.
And of course, we get into some wild side conversations—from studies linking lack of sex to weight gain (do what you will with that info), to a surprising confession from Tim Gunn, to the story of a woman falling in love with an AI chatbot. Yeah… it's one of those episodes.
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| 0:00.0 | I don't know what's going to happen next, but yeah, so what now. |
| 0:13.8 | Hey y'all, welcome back to another episode of the so what now podcast. |
| 0:19.0 | I'm Carla. And I'm Dex. And I'm glad you guys are back. I'm glad you're going to wear that. I'm Carla. And I'm Dix. |
| 0:21.3 | And I'm glad you guys are back. I'm glad to wear that. We should probably start over. I can just take them off now. Okay. The headphones are like, take them off. I just wanted to hear it for a minute to see how we sounded. Okay. Okay. I shall take them off. You're like, you sound. It's just a little weird for you to have those on and me not have headphones on. |
| 0:40.3 | Sometimes people don't have only one person. Okay. I shall take them off. You're like, you sound... It's just a bit a little weird for you to have those on and me not have headphones on. |
| 0:40.3 | Sometimes people don't have only one person has them on. |
| 0:42.3 | Oh, okay. |
| 0:42.8 | But they really listen to us. |
| 0:44.7 | Okay. |
| 0:45.1 | So they wouldn't have known. |
| 0:45.9 | Some people will watch us. |
| 0:47.5 | I hope... |
| 0:48.0 | I want to have tons of watchers because don't you guys want to see our beautiful faces? |
| 0:51.9 | Oh, my gosh. Especially when I'm shading someone. I would never do that. You're never shading. I don't. I'm not. Might be a little judgy. A little. Well, we're back. Go, you asking. What is going on? I need to smoke. Tommy's doing karate now or something? Oh my God, I need to put the real that I like edited when he first went and broke the board and then now he's doing karate and jiu-jitsu. He's telling me he wants to do both. He does not want to choose one or the other. I don't know the difference. So karate, it's more like moves and like choreography essentially. Okay. You do get to fight, but you can only do certain moves, right? And the fighting. Jiu-jitsu is more like wrestling. Oh, okay. Jiu-jitsu when they're on the ground, they're pinning you down. So that was more physical. Okay. And he just loves them both. Yesterday we went in and he did, he got to fight for the first time doing jujitsu great was so good he was so good he fought a girl first and then the boy I said to the boy was like two three years older than him wow boy was mad oh that boy was big mad I'm like you don't stand a chance when he really learns what he's doing um but yesterday I took him to both classes and i gave him a ring pop because his |
| 2:03.8 | teacher asked to speak to me after school and she's like oh can you wait a minute because she was |
| 2:07.2 | talking to another mom and i'm like oh shit you know what they mean wait a minute i just send me send me |
| 2:11.3 | a message trouble yeah he never gets in trouble but i think trouble every time or like i need you |
| 2:16.9 | to do something extra that |
| 2:18.1 | I don't want to do don't ask me to come to help in the classroom like whatever you need for me |
| 2:22.7 | you can ask me via cash app and I will send it that's it that's the kind of mom I am but any whom |
| 2:27.4 | she's like I really want to tell you about something Tommy did today it was so beautiful and she |
| 2:31.4 | started choking up oh and I like, don't do that. |
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