Ep. 643 – Sit With Me Featuring Oneika Mays
Mindrolling with Raghu Markus
Be Here Now Network
4.7 • 542 Ratings
🗓️ 24 April 2026
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
Exploring her “No-BS” approach to yoga and mindfulness, Oneika Mays joins Raghu Markus to discuss the amazing things that happen when we sit down and get in tune with ourselves.
Grab a copy of Oneika’s recently released book, Sit with Me
In this episode, Raghu and Oneika chat about:
- The false sense of protection that comes from building emotional walls
- Grief and coping with the sense that things are unfinished
- Finding oneself over and over again through yoga and mindfulness practice
- Noticing internal sensations, emotions, desires, and beyond on the yoga mat
- Oneika’s transformative work in the prison system and learning to appreciate the concept of seva (service)
- Looking deeply into our sense of resistance
- Love as a strength rather than a weakness
- Ram Dass’s practice of loving awareness and getting excited about the power of love
- A prayer for all beings to be happy and free
- Healing and restoration rather than punishment and incarceration
About Oneika Mays:
Oneika Mays, she/her, LMT, E-RYT, is a multi-hyphenate facilitator who leads with joy, passion, and wisdom. She is a grounded leader with lived experience that centers on mindfulness and transformation. She brings a poignant lens to building a world that is more compassionate and understanding. With deep roots and knowledge in Buddhist and yogic teachings, Oneika delivers practical application and authentic connection through her facilitation skills. With openness and vulnerability, she facilitates the space to talk about change and embrace every part of ourselves. Check out Oneika’s recently released book, Sit with Me, and learn more about her on her website.
“It’s me, inside out and connecting to the world rather than pushing back against something. It was one of the first times I felt like love wasn’t a weakness, but instead gave me strength to show up fully.” –Oneika Mays
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| 0:00.0 | A good meditation teacher isn't just someone who meditates a lot. |
| 0:06.0 | Guiding someone else through the experience of sitting with their own mind is a genuine skill, |
| 0:12.0 | one that requires real training and an ongoing commitment to your own growth as a teacher and practitioner. |
| 0:20.0 | Join renowned Buddhist teacher David Nicturn for a free |
| 0:23.4 | online event on Tuesday, May 5th at 6 p.m. Eastern, exploring the key elements of teaching mindfulness |
| 0:31.6 | meditation. He'll also discuss the upcoming Dharma Moon 100-hour mindfulness meditation teacher training. |
| 0:40.5 | You'll have a chance to ask questions, meet the teaching team, and find out whether the program |
| 0:45.7 | might be a good fit for you. |
| 0:48.9 | Visit Dharmamoon.com backslash elements. |
| 0:52.0 | That's Dharmamoon.com backslash elements. |
| 0:55.4 | For more information, and to reserve your spot for the free event on Tuesday, May 5th. |
| 1:24.9 | Hey, everyone, it's mind rolling, and I am back, and I'm here with Oneika Mays, someone I'm just meeting, and welcome. |
| 1:26.8 | So happy to have you here, Anika. |
| 1:29.6 | I'm so happy to be here, really glad. |
| 1:39.3 | So Onika's book actually has a book called Sit With Me and it caught my eye and this is what I told the last time we talked, a no BSb-s journey to mindfulness and meditation. |
| 1:46.8 | Okay. |
| 1:47.5 | That's one avenue that hasn't really been explored quite the way it should be in my mind, |
| 1:53.7 | and it's certainly one that I like to share with the audience. |
| 1:58.7 | But let's start with your own background. |
| 2:03.3 | And what contributed to you even being interested in mindfulness and meditation? |
| 2:10.3 | I have a deep relationship with chaos. |
| 2:18.5 | Okay. I can relate. Okay. |
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