Ep.64 “People Pleasing Is Manipulative”: A Boundary Setting Bootcamp With Michelle Elman

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Ceos, Unknown, Feminsim, Advice, Self-improvement, Business, Women In Business, Stories, Education, Marketing, Self Improvement, Health & Fitness, Ceo, Women Leaders, Money, Careers, Success

4.4 • 738 Ratings

🗓️ 27 November 2023

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Michelle Elman is a woman with a psychology empire. Her qualifications speak for themselves: she’s a five-board accredited life coach, a Master Practitioner, a Master Hypnotherapist and a psychologist, plus she’s published four bestselling books. But these accolades are more than just a job for Michelle. They’re personal. She faced serious health challenges throughout her childhood, having to endure 15 surgeries, followed by periods of intense self-doubt and low body confidence due to her many scars.

Aged just 21, she began her campaign ‘Scarred not Scared’, advocating for body confidence, and sharing her story with the world. Now, she spends her days coaching others on the importance of self-love, boundaries and acceptance. I’m so excited to share her wisdom with you in this episode.

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0:32.3	Today we are having a boot camp on boundaries. Michelle Elman is a master practitioner, a master hypnotherapist and
0:39.5	a psychologist, but these accolades are more than just a job for Michelle. They're personal. I died when
0:44.5	I was 11. I had 15 surgeries before the age of 19, a brain tumour, punctured intestine. So thinking and
0:51.3	having been told that you could die pretty soon, what are the key ways that that changed the way you live and your mindset?
0:59.0	I would even go as far as to say that people pleasing can be quite manipulative.
1:03.0	It's actually just nonsense.
1:05.0	If it's something that's so easy, then why are we all struggling with it?
1:08.0	The reason why women have been trained to communicate indirectly
1:11.1	is you can't live your life, scared you're going to die every day,
1:15.3	or scared of anything.
1:16.6	How can we practice self-love daily?
1:19.2	Your inner voice is not yours.
1:20.9	It doesn't belong to you.
1:22.1	It's someone else who taught you that.
1:24.0	You cannot profit off someone loving themselves.
1:26.4	You can profit of someone hating themselves.
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