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🗓️ 24 November 2025
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If you’ve ever felt like your emotions take over the moment a connection feels uncertain… or you find yourself spiraling, overthinking, and craving reassurance even when you know it’s “too much,” this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale. Today, we’re diving into anxious attachment through a compassionate, science-backed lens, exploring your nervous system, your past relational experiences, and the truth that nothing is wrong with you. Your reactions make sense. And yes, you can absolutely heal.
If this episode resonated and your heart is saying, “I can’t do another year of these patterns…” I want to lovingly encourage you to take action now.
Applications for the Empowered.Secure.Loved Program close this year, and we have extremely limited spots left. If you know you’re ready to become securely attached and change your relationship patterns for good, this is your chance.
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Your future self (the secure, grounded, loved version of you) will be so grateful you said yes.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Morgan Anderson, psychologist, relationship coach, attachment theory expert, creator of the ESL relationship method, author of Love Magnet and Athletic Wear Connoisseur. My mission is to help you raise yourself worth, have great relationships, and step confidently into the next level of your life. |
| 0:21.6 | Each week, two episodes will air featuring expert advice, live coaching, and tips, showing |
| 0:27.6 | you exactly how to improve your life and attract a healthy relationship. |
| 0:31.6 | You deserve to feel empowered, secure, and love. |
| 0:35.8 | Buckle up and Let's Get Vulnerable. |
| 0:41.4 | Welcome to the Let's Get Vulnerable podcast. |
| 0:44.3 | I'm your host, Dr. Morgan. |
| 0:46.4 | I'm so happy you're here for this series. |
| 0:49.6 | This is the attachment style SOS series. |
| 0:53.3 | It's four parts. We're going to dive into each style. Today we'll be |
| 0:58.5 | talking about anxious attachment. And in the episodes to come, we'll do deep dives on avoid an |
| 1:04.2 | attachment style, disorganized attachment style, and of course, secure where we all want to be. I'm so excited about this series because, of course, |
| 1:14.4 | I have talked about attachment styles in the past, but we're going to do a deep dive that is |
| 1:19.7 | talking about cultural contexts, including the dating scene in 2025, 2026. We're also going to be talking about the roots. It's so important |
| 1:31.8 | to think about where did these styles come from. And I'm going to talk about the nervous system |
| 1:38.9 | in depth. So what does your nervous system do for each style? So like I said, for some of you, this might be |
| 1:47.5 | a bit of a review, but I think all of you listening are going to benefit from each one of these |
| 1:53.9 | episodes in this four-part series because, yes, you want to understand your style, but you also want to |
| 2:00.4 | understand the styles of others. |
| 2:03.1 | So if I'm somebody who has anxious attachment, but I keep dating avoidantly attached people, |
| 2:09.2 | then you're going to want to also listen to the episode on avoidant attachment. |
| 2:14.7 | For example, I'm really excited about this. I, here's what I know. |
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