Hey, Alyssa. Hey, Sam. Are you ready for today? I'm so ready to rumble! Okay, perfect.

So, today's should be a fun one. Yeah, I'm actually excited. I freaking love these episodes, even though sometimes they get me in hot water.

We wanted to do a fun one today, so we're going to be going back to Reddit to the best subreddit that exists. I love this subreddit.

Like, when I read it, sometimes I will say it's the Amideashole subreddit. Sometimes it's like, okay, obviously you're the asshole.

But the ones that are just like the diamond in the sea of like pebbles, you're like, oh, this is gonna stir some shit. Yeah. What is STB?

Are we not? STBX-HUSBEM? Are we not like up with the internet link going anymore? I don't think I am.

STBX-HUSBEM? Okay, yeah, that makes sense. Okay, yeah. Okay, so real quick, when we decided we were gonna do this episode, I was looking last night on Amideashole and we found this thread that's like the best of 2020. Amideashole. So, I haven't read them. Sam hasn't read them. So, we're gonna be going in blind.

And we're just gonna chat about it and decide if someone's the asshole. And what we would do, I think, as well.

For sure. Okay, so this one is Amideashole for telling my soon-to-be X-HUSBEM? He will not be allowed in the birthing room.

I'm 30 weeks pregnant with mine and my soon-to-be X-HUSBEM's daughter. She will be my first child and it turns out she won't be his first child.

He's been carrying on an affair. Already? Fuck this guy. Already now. Fuck this guy.

He's been carrying on an affair that started several years ago during my residency in Internal Medicine and Cardiology.

His excuse was I was working long hours and not emotionally available, so I drove him to it.

I found out about the affair because the woman with their child came to our home two months ago demanding I release him from our financially abusive and loveless marriage.

I guess you could say I am, pushed him because I called him and told him he needed to come home when he did and he saw her.

I knew based upon his reaction he had been cheating. So I kicked him and all the stuff out of the house.

In my book I granted his wish. He had asked for another shot that we go to marriage counseling but he has had years to come clean and didn't.

So I am unwilling to attempt a reconciliation. He's been calling her blah blah blah and then basically she said that she...

She doesn't want him in the room when she goes into labor and that she won't be allowing it and she wants people that she trusts there.

He's been guilt-tripping her saying that he has a right to see his child be born and his family and he thinks that she's the asshole for already alienating him from his child.

Anyways, what's your take on this?

I'm interested to know your take. I'll say mine but I'm interested to know yours because you're pregnant.

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