Ep. 6 | Should We Dismantle The Patriarchy feat. Passport Cutty, Ish & Mouse Jones

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🗓️ 18 March 2025

⏱️ 83 minutes

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On this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B and the crew joined by special guests Passport Cutty (The M In Man Is For Money), Mouse Jones (Dead Ass Comedy Show, Trap Karoke) and Ish (That Ish, The Joe Budden Podcast) tackle the idea of defining patriarchy and its impact (00:00), exploring how it shapes gender roles, relationships, and societal norms. We dive into the emotional and financial dynamics in relationships (03:01), discussing how power, expectations, and personal responsibility play a role. From there, we examine gender roles and expectations (05:54), questioning traditional ideals and whether they still hold value today. The discussion heats up with the debate on dismantling patriarchy (08:58), weighing arguments for and against keeping this system in place. We then explore the role of women in upholding patriarchy (11:46), looking at how societal conditioning influences participation in these structures. The conversation shifts to the intersection of money and relationships (15:06), highlighting financial dynamics and their effect on power balances. As we move forward, we unpack cultural shifts and relationship dynamics (17:53), considering how evolving values impact dating and long-term commitments. We also address the physical component of protection (21:09), questioning traditional expectations of men as protectors. Then, we take a deep dive into navigating modern dating and expectations (23:54), exploring how shifting gender roles influence today’s dating scene. Next, we analyze the influence of societal norms on relationships (27:00), exposing the pressures that shape romantic partnerships. We then take a step back to examine the historical context of marriage and relationships (30:01), understanding how past traditions still affect modern unions. Looking ahead, we question the future of gender roles and relationships (33:13), imagining where we might be headed. The conversation takes a serious turn as we discuss the impact of welfare on family dynamics (41:12), exploring how social programs have shaped family structures. We also call out hypocrisy in gender expectations (44:23), addressing the double standards in societal roles. Money remains a key topic as we break down navigating financial dynamics in relationships (51:23), discussing fairness and accountability. Finally, we confront the reality of marriage and relationship expectations (01:00:51), going beyond romanticized ideals to talk about the real challenges couples face. This leads into a personal reflection on dismantling patriarchy (01:09:01), exploring what it means to break free from traditional structures. The conversation closes with concluding thoughts on fairness and relationships (01:18:42), emphasizing the importance of balance, equity, and mutual understanding in partnerships. Join the conversation in the socials below. Be sure to subscribe, rate and share.

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0:39.9	Okay, y'all, this week I am starting off by reading two definitions because I do think that words mean things and it's very important to define the topic at hand today. So we're going to
0:45.6	start with the first definition of patriarchy, a system of society or government in which men
0:51.5	hold the power and women are largely excluded from it.
0:55.0	The second definition, a social system in which men typically hold authority and responsibility while also excluding women from it.
1:05.0	Now, we're here to have the conversation. I'm joined by some very opinionated friends today.
1:10.0	However, I want to let y'all know my take
1:12.3	on this because where I think we stand with the patriarchy is that it needs to be thrown out of the window.
1:17.3	It is an outdated means of a relationship and how we interact with each other because yes, yes, yes,
1:23.9	we are kind of more 50-50 than when we want to believe. No, we're not talking splitting
1:28.0	bills. We're not talking about who pays for the first date. But I do believe that in the dynamics
1:31.9	of men and women, that we are more equally yoked than we're not. And I do think that the
1:37.3	patriarchy and trying to uphold it does nothing for either gender. Let's be very clear. As men,
1:43.4	you guys are still trying to figure out a way to
1:45.9	provide, yet get mad when women want you to provide. Make it make sense. And then as women,
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