Ep. 564 36 Questions To Make Her Love You
How To GET THE GIRL - An Ask Women Podcast
Cloud10
4.3 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 10 February 2026
⏱️ 69 minutes
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Summary
Can a simple set of questions really make someone fall in love with you. This throwback episode dives into the viral list of 36 questions that claim to create instant emotional connection and attraction.
Marni breaks down what actually works about these questions what is misunderstood and how men can use curiosity vulnerability and emotional presence to create real chemistry instead of forced conversations.
Dating coach David Wygant joins the conversation to give his take on attraction connection and why the right questions can bring people closer when used the right way.
If you have ever wondered what to say to spark deeper interest without sounding scripted or try hard this episode will completely change how you think about conversation and attraction.
>>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide
>>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty
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| 0:00.0 | You're on a date. First 10 minutes? Great. She's laughing. You're feeling good. Then it starts to slow down. You ask another question. She answers. You nod. Ask another one. She's polite, but you feel it slipping moment by moment. By minute 30, you're both just waiting for the check. So here's what's happening. You're interesting in |
| 0:21.7 | real life. You've got opinions, stories, a point of view. But in that moment, you defaulted to |
| 0:28.1 | interview mode. Question after question after question. And every question pushes chemistry |
| 0:35.0 | further and further away. The issue isn't you, it's the conversation structure. |
| 0:40.7 | Most men think asking questions shows interest, but questions are actually the number one thing that |
| 0:46.1 | kills attraction. Because so many people forget, it's a date, not a job interview. And to get you |
| 0:52.0 | out of interview mode, I want you to know there are nine |
| 0:54.3 | conversation tools that create chemistry. And I guarantee you're only using one or two of them |
| 1:01.4 | at most. Things like observations, callbacks, playful assumptions, da-da-da-da-da. That's what |
| 1:07.5 | banter actually is. It's not being funny the entire time. It's knowing which |
| 1:12.6 | tools to use and when. I put together a free guide called my top five tips for talking to women |
| 1:19.1 | in creating instant chemistry. It breaks down exactly what to do when you feel a conversation |
| 1:25.0 | is starting to stall. Go to Kristen and Chilldating.com forward slash |
| 1:30.6 | free dash guide or drop down to the show notes to download it and you'll finally understand |
| 1:35.9 | what's been missing. Hi, it's Marney, your very own personal wing girl and I wanted to ask you, |
| 1:41.5 | have you been confused, frustrated, annoyed by your dating |
| 1:46.3 | life and all of the lack of success that you're having? Or are you struggling to get matches in life |
| 1:52.1 | or struggling to have matches in real life where women actually see you and notice you? Then it's |
| 1:57.4 | time for you and I to get on the phone and talk this through. |
| 2:01.4 | Figure out what the heck is going on, why you aren't getting the kind of success you should |
| 2:05.9 | be getting with women. |
| 2:08.0 | So if you want to talk to me and figure this crap out, which I know you do, then go to |
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