I am on a change. What about you?

So we're back on the shame podcast. I'm still at the Southern Lair. I'm here at my

place in Gulf Shores. Jay, she had all your family in. How had that guy?

We did. This first time they kind of been back to me.

You know, I don't, I don't get in on the scheduling of all these activities that I guess my wife

has in charge of that, but I look up and every time the family comes in, we all get together.

It's like we're doing some kind of retreat or like we're at a camp. But I'm like, where's the schedule?

It's like we're going here because she's like, hey, we're leaving in 5.30. This was on Friday

afternoon. I was like, oh, okay, well, I never asked where we were going. I went to one of

the fail. You, this is, I got, you'll get a kick out of this. So I actually went. I got in a

vehicle with my family and we went to a gender reveal party. Yeah, I'll feel terrible about missing that.

Well, it was my first one. And you know, I didn't know if it was, if in the, in the Christian world,

this is a response to the confusion that seems to be going on in our culture about

what gender they are or, you know, just gender issues. So now what they do is this was, so people

close to us, you know, the woman she's pregnant, you know, everybody's happy. But people want to

know is this a boy or a girl. So they, we get together, they have a meal and that's what we did.

So here was the problem from my perspective. So because I was kind of bewildered with

what's going on. I mean, I look, they had a, they had prime real bone of grill. So I thought,

this will be good. So they said, okay, we're ready. So we all go outside. So the couple, they get

out there and they had what looked like, like a, some kind of canister in their hands. And now I

was looking around because I wasn't sure what was fixed to happen. And everybody had their phones

up. And so they were giving a little speech. We're, we're thankful, you know, for all our family and

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