Ep. 553 The Instincts That Make Women Want You (and Repel Them Too)
How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
4.4 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 5 November 2025
⏱️ 36 minutes
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Summary
This week, we’re going primal 🧠🔥
Author and evolutionary psychology expert Tim Ash joins us to talk about his new book Primal Dating, a brutally honest guide to understanding the instincts that secretly drive attraction, love, and relationships.
We dig into the psychology beneath the surface: what’s really motivating men and women, why certain dating behaviors feel “automatic,” and how our evolutionary wiring still plays out in the modern world of apps, texting, and situationships.
If you’ve ever wondered why you (or your dates) do the things you do—even when it doesn’t make logical sense—this episode is your roadmap to decoding human nature in dating.
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| 1:02.0 | When did you last say something so perfectly timed that she got butterflies and couldn't stop smiling? |
| 1:07.7 | Most men think flirting is some mysterious skill they'll never master, but the truth, |
| 1:11.6 | there are specific words, specific moments, specific techniques that make women melt every single time. |
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| 1:39.4 | to get it now for free. Coming up on this week's episode of The Ask Women, How to Get the Girl. |
| 1:46.4 | Again, I do not know how to say this freaking name. |
| 1:48.6 | Podcast. |
| 1:49.2 | We have the author of Primal Dating, who is going to talk to us about the unflinching evolutionary |
| 1:54.5 | psychology guide to modern relationships, where he is going to break down how men and women work. |
| 2:02.4 | Not the things that they do, but the things that drive them, the instincts that we have, |
| 2:06.1 | the things that we may not be able to fully control about ourselves so that we can |
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