Ep. 548 How to Date When You’re New in Town
How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
4.4 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 1 October 2025
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
Moving to a new city can feel like hitting the reset button—new streets to explore, new friends to make, and a whole new dating scene to figure out. In this throwback episode (originally aired 6.15.16, Ep. 67), Marni and Kristen talk with east-coast transplant PJ about how to rebuild your social life, boost your confidence, and navigate dating when you’re starting from scratch.
We also dive into:
The challenges of dating in a brand-new city
How to create your own social circle from the ground up
Building confidence and finding comfort in unfamiliar places
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| 0:00.0 | When was the last time you made a woman blush just by looking at her? When did you last say something |
| 0:05.6 | so perfectly timed that she got butterflies and couldn't stop smiling? Most men think flirting |
| 0:11.1 | is some mysterious skill they'll never master. But the truth, there are specific words, specific |
| 0:16.0 | moments, specific techniques that make women melt every single time. I've put together my secret flirting cheat sheet, the exact lines and moves that create the electric |
| 0:25.6 | tension women crave. |
| 0:27.6 | It's free, it works, and honestly, it might even be a little bit too powerful for you. |
| 0:32.6 | Go grab it now before I change my mind about giving this away. |
| 0:35.6 | Go to winggirlmethod.com slash |
| 0:38.3 | you so flirty or you can also look at the show notes to get the link to get it now for free. |
| 0:44.1 | Coming up on this week's episode of the Ask Win podcast, we have another episode of Help |
| 0:47.7 | A Brother out with PJ who is in studio with us. I love when we have people from Los Angeles |
| 0:52.3 | because I can look at them eye to eye and that makes a huge difference getting to see the whole package of who they are and what's going on. We talk about dating in a new city and how to find your own social circle, your confidence, your comfort level. It's really good. And we have Roberto who is back with us very, very, very, very, very, very, very long time. And we are going to help them out. So keep listening. |
| 1:24.0 | Hey, guys, welcome back to the Askingman podcast. It is Marnie, not Kristen. |
| 1:28.4 | Kristen's a little bit late. |
| 1:29.2 | She actually is on a callback for a commercial, which is pretty cool. |
| 1:33.7 | Hopefully she gets it, and you could see her chewing gum in a commercial on your television. |
| 1:39.6 | I don't know. |
| 1:40.1 | I have no idea what the commercial is even for. |
| 1:41.7 | But she may wander in here in a little bit. |
| 1:44.8 | She had said she'd be in shortly. |
| 1:46.6 | So in the meantime, I'm going to sit here and talk to PJ, who is in studio with us for an episode of Help a Brother out. |
| 1:54.5 | Hey, PJ. |
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