Ep. 546 Porn, Dating, and What Women Really Think (with Dr. Kayte)
How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
4.4 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 16 September 2025
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
This episode is anything but a lecture. In fact, we kick things off with a totally candid 10-minute conversation between me, Kristen, and our guest Dr. Kayte about our own porn patterns - genres, likes, dislikes - proving that yes, we ALL watch porn.
From there, Dr. Kayte breaks down what’s actually healthy versus harmful when it comes to porn, plus what’s real and what’s pure camera trickery that should never, ever be tried in real life.
We also dive into Dr. Kayte’s own dating life as a woman in her mid-30s, where she shares surprising insecurities that so many women in that stage of life can relate to. Even if you’re a woman listening, you’re going to love this one.
In this episode, we also overanalyze and unpack:
The best questions to ask on dates to instantly put your date at ease
What to avoid saying to women when you’re on a date
How excessive porn can absolutely kill your real-life sex life
The traits women secretly find attractive (that will probably surprise you)
...and so much more.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I know what you're doing. Yes, yes, I do. You're overthinking and not being present. You're closing |
| 0:07.9 | off in your body language and also your facial language. You're being nice. You're not being |
| 0:13.1 | yourself. So you're not getting the respect you need to get in order for her to feel attraction. |
| 0:19.3 | So Dave and I from Limitless Brave are breaking through those barriers on September 27th and |
| 0:26.6 | 28th in Los Angeles and you need to be there. |
| 0:28.6 | So day two, the 28th, that's the big one, an intensive hands-on training where only 10 guys |
| 0:34.6 | are allowed in and we only have a couple spots left so you might want to sign up now |
| 0:37.9 | you'll walk out with no gimmicks or cheesy lines but with the felt experience of what it's like |
| 0:44.1 | to lead with a grounded authentic and masculine energy that draws her to you but maybe you're new to |
| 0:50.6 | coaching and just want to dip your toe in you can come for day one only it's 97 bucks. It's a great way to experience this work for yourself. And if you want to go deeper, |
| 0:58.9 | you can add on the VIP dinner with Dave and I that night and surround yourself with like-minded men |
| 1:04.0 | who are all growth-oriented. But if you're serious about real, real transformation, |
| 1:10.3 | then the full two-day experience is for you. |
| 1:13.3 | It's designed to give you the breakthroughs and confidence that last a lifetime. |
| 1:18.2 | This is no pickup seminar. |
| 1:19.9 | We're not teaching any of those cheap tricks. |
| 1:22.0 | This is a full spectrum experience training in authentic, confident, masculine dating. |
| 1:26.5 | And because we're keeping it small, |
| 1:28.0 | the few spots that are left are going to go fast. So if this resonates with you and you know |
| 1:32.3 | it's time to make a change, go to Kristen and Chill dating.com forward slash day two. That's |
| 1:39.5 | D-A-Y, the number two, for the full experience. If you want to do day one, go to |
| 1:45.5 | christen and chill dating.com forward slash day one. Thank you. When was the last time you made a woman blush just by looking at her? |
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