Ep. 542 The Pursuit Playbook and Decoding Her Signals
How to Get the Girl: By the Ask Women Podcast
Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney
4.4 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 19 August 2025
⏱️ 56 minutes
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Summary
How do you know when to pursue, when to pull back, and when to stop altogether?
In this throwback episode, we sit down with Emmy-nominated producer and casting director Tanya Bershadsly to break down the art of pursuit.
We dive into the signals women give that tell you she’s interested, HOW TO SPOT when you’re pushing too far, and the difference between persistence and pressure.
Tanya brings her eye for human behavior from years in casting to reveal what women are really communicating, often without saying a word.
Whether you struggle to make the first move or aren’t sure when to step back, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to pursue women the right way.
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, it's Marnie, your very own personal wing girl, and I wanted to ask you, have you been |
| 0:19.2 | confused, frustrated, annoyed by your dating life |
| 0:23.2 | and all of the lack of success that you're having? Or are you struggling to get matches in life |
| 0:28.6 | or struggling to have matches in real life where women actually see you and notice you? |
| 0:33.6 | Then it's time for you and I to get on the phone and talk this through. |
| 0:37.9 | Figure out what the heck is going on, why you aren't getting the kind of success you |
| 0:42.1 | should be getting with women. |
| 0:44.5 | So if you want to talk to me and figure this crap out, which I know you do, then go to |
| 0:49.3 | winggirlmethad.com slash coaching Marnie. |
| 0:53.6 | Go to winggirlmethit.com slash coaching Marnie. Go to winggirl method.com slash coaching marnie and we will have a free 20 to 40 minute |
| 1:00.7 | call where we are going to literally go through your dating life. |
| 1:05.6 | What's going on? |
| 1:06.5 | What's going on in your head? |
| 1:07.7 | What's going on in your body? |
| 1:08.9 | What's going on in your interactions with what's going on in your body, what's going on in your interactions with women, and why you are not successful yet. Go to winggirlmethod.com slash coaching |
| 1:18.4 | Marnie, and we'll talk about it, figure it out, and make a plan to make changes. |
| 1:23.8 | Coming up on the Ask Women podcast, you're going to hear about what it means to actually pursue a woman. |
| 1:29.3 | When are you doing it right? |
| 1:31.0 | When are you doing wrong? |
| 1:32.3 | When is a woman telling you to stop pursuing? |
| 1:34.1 | This is a question I get all the time. |
| 1:35.7 | So we are diving into it on this episode. |
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