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🗓️ 23 July 2025
⏱️ 38 minutes
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We’re throwing it back to one of our most downloaded episodes with none other than Alpha M, the #1 men’s lifestyle influencer, Aaron Marino.
In this conversation, we unpack the truth about confidence: where it actually comes from, why most guys fake it wrong, and how to build the kind of self-assurance that women feel before you even say a word.
We dive into:
Why confidence has nothing to do with arrogance
The grooming/style habits that change how you feel, not just how you look
How small wins (not big achievements) create real swagger
What to do when you're spiraling in self-doubt
Why the “get out of your comfort zone” cliché still works—and how to do it without burning out
This one’s packed with clarity, no fluff, and high-impact takeaways for any guy ready to stop overthinking and start showing up like a man who knows his worth.
>>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's fully-transformative coaching here: kristenandchilldating.com/coaching
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0:00.0 | If you're tired of feeling tired of feeling tired, a feeling tired of your not just dating life, |
0:08.7 | but your life in general, and you feel like that flame in you is gone, it's dwindled, |
0:14.8 | and you want it back? I'm your gal. You guys know me, I'm Kristen, obviously, from the show. |
0:20.2 | We've been doing the show for about 13 years. |
0:22.9 | Through the 13 years, I've made a radical transformation. You guys might not totally notice because, |
0:31.1 | don't tell Marney, I told you this, but we sneak in some repeat episodes. And so sometimes you get a taste of the old Kristen, |
0:39.7 | and then sometimes you get a taste of the transformed Kristen. |
0:43.2 | Now I'm talking to you as the transformed Kristen, |
0:46.7 | and I want to help you make the transition not do a different gender. |
0:52.1 | I mean, unless that's your thing, whatever, that's fine. |
0:56.2 | I want to help you transition into the person you know you're meant to be. I've been there. I've done it. I've |
1:03.2 | been in your shoes. My 90-day magnetic man program is incredible. Yes, you learn how to banter. Yes, |
1:10.4 | you learn how to be witty and flirty and fast on your |
1:13.2 | feet and all that good stuff. But it goes way beyond that. This is a full life transformation |
1:19.4 | from the inside out. You'll work with me each week as we build true confidence. Of course, |
1:27.1 | sharpen your flirting and dating skills. Turn up the |
1:29.9 | saturation on your best qualities and who you are. Upgrade everything from how you carry yourself |
1:36.8 | when you walk into a room to what you think about yourself, to your style, to your photos. And |
1:42.6 | don't even get me started on your dating profile which not to brag |
1:46.9 | even though this whole thing is kind of a brag they're so good even i'm impressed genuinely |
1:53.0 | like i sit there and kind of stare at it and wow i did that oh i'm pretty impressive plus unlike |
2:00.3 | most other coaches i'm with you throughout the week. Yes, that means you get me on call by text, so you're never alone on this transformational journey. My clients see incredible results, for many reasons, one included, I tailor the program specifically to you. |
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