I am on a change. What about you?

So, on the last podcast we were talking about the funeral for Aunt Mary. I know that Lulu

our cousin listens to the podcast and Lulu you know how much we love it. It's one of those

deals where it happened fast you know and so it didn't give you everything just kind of

goes into the mode for the family for her like to prepare what you know we got to get

the funeral going we got it and so you know we're all like we're in for whatever you

need is you know it was kind of our mindset and but I got to do the funeral with Gordon

and it was great because you know we it's family so when it's your family and you're

doing a funeral you know you know for most people are just kind of I mean they're kind

of dry and you know some of the times people know what to say and look I've done some

before I didn't know the people it's hard I mean it's hard that you're trying to be meaningful

biblical but when it's your family you can just kind of just tell it like it is you know

you're not too worried or at least I'm not but so I was so I kind of got to do the more

of this stuff and I like to do tell stories but then one of the things I said which is

true and then Gordon got up and said that's not true because he spoke after me I said you

know whenever my uncle and aunt Harold and Mary used to come down it almost always wound

up being a huge Bible discussion slash debate slash argument slash people yelling

pepper slayer but look at the end of it whenever everybody would leave we still loved each

other when we were family and that's I made that point you know they would until the next

until the next appointed time and I remembered one particular time Gordon and Jay and I

said this I said it was in Zach you weren't there because you were out you were out of town

but I said it would always be more intense when Gordon and Jan were a part of the argument

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