Ep. 523 Unlocking Arousal: The Many Pathways to Pleasure

Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.4 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2025

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

In this juicy and eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the many ways women experience arousal - with a refreshingly honest look at the full spectrum of desire. Joined by sex and intimacy expert Melissa Louise, we explore the concept of arousal maps for both women and men, and how most of us have only scratched the surface of what's possible.

Whether you've been with your partner for years or you're just starting something new, Melissa shares powerful tools for communicating your wants, needs, and turn-ons in ways that feel safe, confident, and connected.

We also unpack the common myths about arousal, the options we didn’t even know were on the table, and why pleasure is never one-size-fits-all.

This one is equal parts educational, liberating, and empowering. You might never approach sex the same way again.

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0:00.0	coming up on this week's episode of the Ask Women podcast, we talk about arousal. How can
0:07.2	women and men be aroused? Did you know that there's more than two ways for us to become
0:12.5	turned on? Well, that's exactly what I learned in this episode with the amazing Melissa Louise,
0:18.1	who was going to share with us everybody's maps of arousal, a woman's
0:22.5	map of arousal, a man's map of arousal, and all of the options that we have in front of us
0:27.1	that we're not accessing for ways to pleasure ourselves, our partners, and new people in our
0:33.2	life. As well, we're going to talk about how to communicate our wants and desires to new women,
0:38.5	women we're in relationships with. It's a jam-packed episode full of amazing information.
0:43.2	So keep listening.
0:53.9	Hey, you guys, welcome back to the Ask Women podcast. We have a really exciting episode today because we're talking about arousal. I am one of your co-host, Kristen Carney from Kristen and chill dating.com. And of course, with me is my wonderful co-host, Marnie, from the Wing Girl Method. And our guest today, who knows all about arousal and is going
1:14.4	to tell you there's so many different ways to penetrate or to have sex without penetration,
1:19.7	essentially, Melissa Louise, and she's a leading expert, pleasure advocate, erotic blueprint
1:26.2	coach, and sex intimacy intimacy, and relationship expert.
1:30.6	Sorry, it's a mouthful, but guys should be used to having a mouthful after this episode because
1:36.0	they're going to learn so much with the moves. So thanks for coming on and joining us.
1:42.8	Oh my goodness. It's so my pleasure.
1:44.4	I'm really excited for today's conversation.
1:47.3	So yes.
1:48.1	I'm excited too.
1:49.0	I don't know if Kristen is.
1:49.9	I just have to tell a quick story about Kristen when we first started doing this podcast like a
1:53.2	cajillion years ago.
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