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Monocycle with Leandra Medine

Ep 49: Shopping Can Trap You

Monocycle with Leandra Medine

Monocycle

Arts

4.9779 Ratings

🗓️ 17 February 2017

⏱️ 9 minutes

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Summary

This week's episode of Monocycle reflects upon a cleanse I endured over January wherein I did not buy a single thing, save for a jar of Castelvetrano olives and apple cider vinegar. That's dramatic; I also bought cleaning supplies and coffee and even one massage. The "cleanse" was mostly for clothing/shoes/accessories and the results surprised me (for lack of a better way to end this sentence). Evidently, more is not more; it can emotionally trap you in its abundance. I felt curiously liberated from my stuff and like I was better at tapping into what I already have and therefore no longer in pursuit of anything new (this became a metaphor for thinking) and...and...and...listen and we can continue this conversation. Welcome back to regular programming! Sincerely yours, Malcolm Gladwell Related Stories: The Things You Learn When You Stop Shopping for a Month I Clean My Closet Once a Month: Does that Make Me Compulsive? Monocycle is edited by Nicholas Quazzy Alexander. Logo illustration by Kelly Shami; photo by Carlo Bavagnoli via Getty Images.

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0:00.0

Hi, welcome back to MonoCycle, a podcast by man repeller hosted by Leandra Medine.

0:07.8

Last week, we published an article that was called The Things You Learn When You Stop Shopping for a month.

0:13.0

It was born out of the decision that I made to not buy anything through the month of January.

0:18.9

The reason I made the decision is because I feel like I have a ton of stuff and like it's starting to overwhelm me,

0:24.6

to the point where cleaning out my closet becomes a thing that recurs on my weekend to-do lists over and over again for really no reason.

0:32.6

So in this episode of MonoCycle, I'm going to talk about that story, summarizing some of it, and ultimately

0:38.3

talking about what I learned. See, it all... A.B? Hi. My husband just got home. I wasn't

0:48.2

expecting that. I'm talking into a sound booth. And now I feel awkward. Moving on. My dad always used to tell me that

1:01.8

stuff ruins trips. What he meant was that overpacking is the bane of fun. I didn't know what

1:07.6

that meant until I realized it as I was lugging an enormous suitcase down Rue Saint-Anore in Paris with stuff falling out of it as I lugged.

1:16.5

That that was the worst experience of my life.

1:19.7

I mean, I'm speaking in hyperbole.

1:21.1

There have been much worse experiences, but I remember that moment so vividly, and I remember so vividly how I remembered the way my dad

1:28.5

used to say that stuff ruins trips.

1:31.2

This, I thought to myself, must be precisely what he meant.

1:36.0

Because you know, you're drowning in a sea of your own stuff in a place that's foreign,

1:39.3

which completely distracts you from appreciating the distance and discovering where you are. Obviously I'm very good at

1:46.0

compartmentalizing advice because I've never not once tried to apply this dearly beholden at age

1:52.0

to my life outside of trips. But guess what? Drumroll please. Stuff ruins more than just trips. So while I set out to attempt this January

2:05.3

quote-unquote cleanse, what I didn't consider is how difficult imparting the sanction would be on

2:11.1

myself, particularly in January because all of the sales are so enticing and so inviting.

2:17.1

The heavily discounted stuff

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