Ep 47: Can You Keep Some Of Your Married Life Private (Bonus Episode)

Marriage Be Hard Conversations

KevOnStage MrsKevOnStage

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality

5 • 5K Ratings

🗓️ 12 May 2019

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Bonus Episode:

So when we switched over to a new web designer we lost ALL the old episodes of the Love Hour from our first podcast. FOR SHAME! So on Sunday’s we are going to upload these episodes as bonus episodes that way our entire library will be complete. We will upload these once a week which should take almost all 2019. Some of the stuff mentioned in this is dated but the information is SOO GOOD!

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0:00.0	Today is one of the questions from our listeners. If you would love to submit a topic to love
0:03.6	our, just email me, uh, Kevin on stage at Gmail. You can do deer Kevin list. You can just say,
0:08.6	I want to talk about this, but email me, Kevin on stage at Gmail. If you would love to do a topic.
0:12.8	Okay. The question today comes from one of our loyal listeners on the podcast. And it says,
0:18.7	good evening, do spouses need to share everything or can they keep some parts of their life private?
0:24.1	For example, does my spouse need to know I sometimes take a few hours off work early to get my
0:29.3	hair done or go to the mile alone? Does this person need to have, or excuse me, does a person
0:34.9	have to make their life an open book just because they're married? Also, how can a person maintain
0:40.1	submitted the duality while married? It's cool to be a wee, but how does a person maintain their
0:45.9	life? Is that okay? Do spouses need to share everything or can they keep parts of their life private?
1:10.0	Okay. So it's a whole lot and that is a really good question. Let's just take a piece of
1:13.9	paper. Yeah. There is a lot of good stuff in there. And I feel kind of two ways about this question
1:20.1	because I kind of struggle with the me versus we thing myself. Okay. So this is why I hate starting
1:28.6	because when I start, I feel like I have so many thoughts going into my mind. Okay. Grab it and toss
1:33.4	it out into the atmosphere. Okay. So the first part, do I think that you can keep some sub-private
1:39.6	in your marriage? And I feel like that answer is yes and enough. Okay. So what I mean by that,
1:48.3	can you have like you don't want to lose yourself to an marriage? You don't want to lose your
1:54.5	individuality in a marriage where I lose and again, I've talked about this, but where you lose
2:00.8	Melissa, the person that I was before I became before I said I do. Melissa, the person I was before
2:09.4	I had kids, you don't want to lose that person. So that part of you you want to hold on to,
2:14.1	that makes sense as far as the private part is concerned. However, to say that you have a whole
2:20.7	part of your life that your spouse does not know about, I don't think that's okay. Right? Yeah.
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