EP 469: Forgiving Cheaters (feat. Brianda & Krystal)
Decisions, Decisions
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.6 • 7.7K Ratings
🗓️ 20 April 2026
⏱️ 67 minutes
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Mandii B and Weezy are joined by their best friends Krystal and Brianda for a candid and unfiltered episode of Decisions, Decisions as they dive into dating dynamics, monogamy, and the blurred lines of modern relationships. The group unpacks everything from exploring options and questioning loyalty, to whether someone likes you more and how to communicate boundaries when you’re not trying to entertain multiple people. They get into real conversations about cheating, forgiveness, and the “once a cheater, always a cheater” debate, while also sparking a heated discussion around marriage, motherhood, and public figures like Cardi B and Latto. The episode also takes a deeper turn as they open up about dating during serious health challenges, including navigating relationships while going through breast cancer treatment, before circling back to celibacy, double standards, and what it really means when men claim they’re abstaining.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey y'all, it's Lauren LaRosa with the latest with Lauren LaRosa on Black Effect. |
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| 1:10.7 | Do you believe in once a cheater? Always a cheater. You know, I'm curious to know your thoughts because you're a cheater. No, maybe you're trying to like protect yourself from liking them too much. Yes, girl, I knew you were going to relate with me. I do that too. When you really like a guy, you have to you fuck another guy to what? I need the explanation. No, I don't want this to be the clue. She lives in Dulhu and then projects on everyone else. If you're engaging with someone who has that same ideology, it's not that wild. So you kind of like justify that you're talking to other people because you know where your heart is. This is what men say. You know where my heart is. I know I spoke with that other one. But I don't know that about him. So if I see him talking to her, like what, uh? I choose to believe that women are smarter than we like to think. And I don't know, I'm very pro-women. You know this. I'll defend women. are that's illusion too i love i call it delusion i don't care i love women are at the but |
| 2:02.2 | what you are you self-hating woman You know this? I'll defend women's rights. You are. That's illusion too. I love. I call it delusion. I don't care. I love. |
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