EP 459: Healing from Anger and Isolation with Shreya

Over It And On With It

Christine Hassler

Mental Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 10 July 2024

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Christine coaches Shreya through her anger, isolation, and self-sabotage struggles. Shreya reveals a long-standing separation from others, characterized by intense rage and difficulty forming connections. Christine helps her uncover the root causes of these feelings, tracing them back to her childhood and an emotionally unavailable mother. Together, they explore strategies for healing, self-compassion, and the importance of relational dynamics in overcoming deep-seated patterns.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

Do you have a history of pushing people away?
Do you often feel angry or rageful?
Are you mean to others despite not wanting to be?
Were you a deeply feeling child in a home where that wasn't safe, causing you to find it hard to deal with pain?

Guest Insights:

Shreya feels a persistent separation from others, accompanied by intense anger.
She acknowledges a tumultuous relationship with her emotionally unavailable mother.
She recognizes her anger as a protective mechanism to avoid being hurt.
Despite feeling broken, she experiences a meaningful connection with Christine during the call, proving she can relate to others.

A-Ha Moments:

Christine highlights that Shreya's awareness of her "weird" behavior indicates it's not her true self.
Understanding that pushing people away is a defense mechanism provides Shreya with a new perspective on her actions.
Recognizing the role of her childhood experiences in shaping her current behavior is a step toward healing.

How to Get Over It and On With It:

Seek one-on-one therapy or coaching to work through relational dynamics and patterns.
Allow the protective part of yourself to express its fears through journaling or audio notes, then connect with the part of you that craves connection.
Practice self-compassion and recognize the protective nature of your anger and isolation.

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Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over it and on with the life you love.

Transcript

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0:00.0	This is episode 459 with Shreya.
0:05.0	Welcome to Over It and On With It.
0:08.0	I'm your host Christine Hasler and for over a decade I've been a life coach, speaker, and author.
0:13.0	Each week you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal they want
0:16.7	to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing.
0:19.2	I'll provide a blend of practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply to your own life.
0:25.0	Now let's get on with the episode.
0:27.0	Hey everybody, welcome back to the show. as always so glad you're here just a quick
0:36.4	announcement before we dive in maybe you've heard that I'm hosting a retreat
0:40.0	the last weekend in September it's called over at non with it live it's not a live
0:44.4	recording of the podcast it's an actual retreat it's a weekend process with
0:48.5	coaching and her child work and nervous system work and somatic work and breath work
0:52.0	it's gonna be be amazing. The
0:53.9	Early Bird Special is ending soon so if you want to take advantage of the 497
0:58.2	pricing and get $200 off you're gonna want to save your space.
1:02.6	Go to Christine Haster.com slash retreat
1:06.1	for all the info and I really hope to see you there.
1:08.6	It's going to be amazing.
1:10.7	Today's episode is about pushing people away and sabotaging things and having a lot of anger and
1:16.2	rage even though you may really want to connect.
1:20.0	So as you're listening to this episode, consider, do you have a history of pushing people away?
1:25.3	Do you often feel angry, rageful?
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