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Over It And On With It

EP 453: How to Make Changes When You Don't Have Certainty or a Plan with Liv

Over It And On With It

Christine Hassler

Mental Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2024

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Christine Hassler coaches Liv, who is experiencing a significant life transition and is unsure about her career and future. Liv has worked with children as a teacher, babysitter, and nanny, but now she feels the urge to explore other professional paths. She struggles with guilt over leaving her current line of work and fears the uncertainty of pursuing new opportunities.

Consider/Ask Yourself:

  • Are you feeling the urge to make a change or has a change been forced upon you?
  • How did your upbringing shape your views on failure and success?
  • Do you rely on your job as a safety net?
  • What is your relationship with uncertainty, and are you willing to change your beliefs to improve it?

Guest Insights:

  • Liv is transitioning from a familiar career working with children to exploring new professional opportunities.
  • She feels overwhelmed by the thought of leaving a job that she loves but also wants to pursue personal growth.
  • Liv struggles with balancing her desire to serve others with her need for self-fulfillment.
  • She feels a deep need for control and certainty, which stems from her upbringing, where failure had severe consequences.
  • Liv's primary challenge is to reprogram her beliefs and embrace uncertainty as part of her growth.

Aha Moments:

  • Liv recognized that her current job should not be seen as a safety net but as a stepping stone to new opportunities.
  • She identified the need to create a new relationship with uncertainty and develop an internal sense of safety.
  • Liv realized that her belief that she cannot make money doing what she loves is a limiting belief that needs updating.

How to Get Over It:

  • Liv should focus on updating her limiting beliefs, such as "I can't make money doing what I love" to "People are interested in what I have to offer and it adds value to their lives."
  • Embrace the belief that prioritizing her own growth is not selfish but essential for serving others more effectively.
  • Take one step at a time and recognize that safety and certainty come from within, not from external jobs or situations.
  • Engage in pattern interrupt techniques to shift from fear-based decisions to ones based on authenticity and alignment.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is episode 453. How to make changes when you don't have certainty or a plan with live.

0:07.0

Welcome to Over It and On With It.

0:11.0

I'm your host, Christine Hasler, and for over a decade I've been a life coach, speaker, and author. Each week

0:16.9

you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal

0:19.6

they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing. I'll provide a blend of

0:23.5

practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply to your own

0:27.2

life. Now let's get on to the show. Well I love how this episode lined up because

0:38.8

it's about making changes and transitions and feeling like you're in some kind of identity shift, which is perfect because on the

0:46.1

30th, which is tomorrow, if you're listening to this episode when it drops May 30th,

0:50.9

I am leading a group coaching session on identity and transitions and this is such a

0:56.1

juicy topic and I have so much to say about it and I'm very excited it's only

1:00.3

$20 you can go to Christine Haster.com slash group to join us. If you miss the live that's

1:06.4

fine you can get the recording you can access the recording of this one even after

1:10.9

the date passes so just head on over to Christine

1:13.0

Hasser.com slash group. I'm going to be guiding you through a process. I'm

1:16.7

going to be teaching on how to make identity shifts easier. The difference

1:19.6

between internal and external shifts. Why transitions are so hard, how they can not be so hard,

1:25.2

and really how to keep your nervous system regulated as you're going through so much change,

1:29.3

because change can be very disregulating.

1:31.5

So lots of juicy stuff. Had on over to Christine

1:34.0

hazard.com slash group to join me. Today's caller is live and she's asking

1:40.0

questions about her career and her future and although she might be on the younger

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