Ep. 440: Grits & Legs (ft. Deante Kyle)

Decisions, Decisions

The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts

Society & Culture, Comedy, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.5 • 7.6K Ratings

🗓️ 29 September 2025

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Mandii and the crew dive into the messy, hilarious, and sometimes raw realities of dating, podcast fame, and everything in between. They kick things off with the problems TikTok has created for younger audiences before jumping into those awkward moments at functions when someone you’ve slept with might be in the room.

Deante opens up about his own dating life, the pressures of having “pod groupies,” and how fame changes the dynamic. The group debates honesty, bi-sexual men being cut off, and even a “This or That” on white women vs. Candace Owens. Later, they touch on the agendas of passport bros, being with fans, and if 10s are really worth it compared to a solid “cool 7 or 8.”

Things get deeper as they explore trauma, fame, and whether a past experience can stop you from taking someone seriously. Of course, it wouldn’t be complete without heauxtry, Dyckman basketball talk, and the We Listen & We Judge segment—this time, a celebrity edition.

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0:00.0	This is an IHeart podcast.
0:04.5	Welcome to Decisions, Decisions.
0:06.2	I don't think you should say Decisions Decisions.
0:08.3	It sounded like you was talking in cursing.
0:10.9	You definitely say to welcome.
0:12.4	Welcome to the new podcast.
0:14.5	All right.
0:15.2	You want to say it together?
0:16.5	Decisions, Decisions.
0:18.2	Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decisions. Decisions. Decisions, decisions. Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decisions.
0:22.6	Decisions.
0:23.6	Now, y'all, if you are in the South, this is going to be a real southern episode.
0:28.6	But just so you know, let me go ahead and get it started because I have been missed, what's it called, geographized, okay?
0:35.6	Miss epigraphicized. It's your girl? Geographicized. Okay. Mis-epernicized.
0:37.5	It's your girl, Mandy, V, a. K.A. Dead Bitch from the 4-7 Chappa City. Blot, blah, blah, blah. Don't get a boo. This is not so normal intro, my name. It's not so normal intro. I'm really embarrassing. Yes, it is. Oh, my God. Nick, we didn't know anybody.
0:54.3	I just be like, bye.
0:55.5	We need a new intro.
0:56.8	You got her.
0:57.2	All right.
0:57.3	You have my patience only go one. I'm really embarrassing. Yes, it is. Oh, my God. Nick, we can't be on anybody.
0:55.2	Don't do that anymore.
0:56.7	We need a new intro.
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