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Slack.com slash DHQ. Many years ago when I first got out of college, I moved in with my

then girlfriend, my now wife, into a tiny little apartment on it in a beautiful block

on the west side of Manhattan. We lived in a brownstone, narrow street. You were looking

right into the windows of the brownstone across the street. And after we had lived there

a while, a young couple moved into the building and right across from us. And they had the

kind of strange habit of making love right next to the window with the sash open, with

the curtains open. And they were incredibly attractive, pair. And it was riveting because

it was right. You couldn't, you could not miss it. I mean, when people came over to visit,

you have to close the blinds because you couldn't help but see them having sex right across

the window. And I was watching them one day and I turned to my girlfriend and I said,

this is what I can't believe the things these people do. It's pornographic. And she

looked out and she said, well, they're only doing what we do. Everybody does, we all do

the same things. You know, we do all those things. And I realized suddenly that when you

look at sex from the outside, it's pornographic. But when you experience from the inside, it's

not pornographic at all. Usually it's quite meaningful and full of depth and full of interest

and just full of pleasure and all kinds of internal experiences. And this is why I believe

Alfred Hitchcock believed there were two things that you should never film. You should never

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