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This Naked Mind Podcast

EP 388: Reader Question: How do I stay sober as an isolated stay-at-home mom?

This Naked Mind Podcast

Annie Grace

Mental Health, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.72.7K Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2021

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

A reader asks, “How can I stay sober as a stay-at-home mom with a spouse who works outside of the home? We don't have the option of childcare for several reasons. My family isn't nearby and my spouse helps as much as possible when he's home but I feel exhausted and selfish for wanting time to myself.” Annie Grace shares her thoughts about being selflessly selfish and deconstructing our beliefs about alcohol’s power to make us less miserable.

So, if you asked me about the one thing that makes This Naked Mind so different from anything else I would have to say emotion. Is the emotion people feel when they're really ready to make a change, when they've had that mindset shift, when they've gone through all the materials and the methodology, and they get this feeling that they're never going to get to drink again, they let that go and they think, "Oh my gosh, I never have to drink again." That change in emotion. And honestly, according to all sorts of new research, it is emotion, especially positive emotion more than anything else that predicates how long a change in our behavior will stick, how long it will last. It's emotion. And so when you feel excited about a change in your life, when you're thrilled, you're making this new different change instead of feeling deprived or like you've been missing out, everything changes.

And that's really what makes This Naked Mind stick for the long-term. That's what makes it so different is we focus on how you feel and truly change your emotion around drinking. And if that sounds interesting to you, I want you to check out our self guided PATH at nakedmindpath.com. Enrollment in this program is closing on June 11th. So you don't want to miss it. It's closing now. And this is the path to changing your emotion and changing your feelings so that you can really truly find freedom in your relationship with alcohol.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Annie Grace and you're listening to this Naked Mind Podcast where without judgment,

0:16.0

pain or rules, we explore the role of alcohol in our lives and culture.

0:21.3

This episode is sponsored by the Alcohol Experiment, a free 30-day challenge designed to interrupt

0:32.5

your patterns, give you control, restore your health and put you back in touch with the

0:36.8

version of you who doesn't eat alcohol to cope, relax or enjoy life.

0:41.3

More than 220,000 people have already tried the alcohol experiment for themselves and has

0:45.9

seen improved sleep, increased happiness, reduced anxiety and so much more.

0:51.0

To join thousands in this inspiring, hopeful and exciting program, we examine your beliefs

0:55.5

and reconnect with the best version of you without ever feeling like you're missing out.

1:00.4

Start today for free at alcoholexperiment.com.

1:03.4

Good to be here.

1:06.8

So, what I am answering readers questions today and I got this question, how can I stay

1:12.7

sober as a stay-at-home mom with the spasor works outside of the home?

1:17.1

Staying home with the kids is already isolating and it's been even worse with the pandemic.

1:21.4

No playgrounds, no five and under activities, it's getting better but the list goes on.

1:25.4

You don't have the option of child care for several reasons, my family isn't nearby

1:28.9

and my spouse helps as much as possible when he's home but I feel exhausted and selfish

1:32.5

for wanting time to myself.

1:34.6

So it sounds like there's two different pieces here.

1:37.0

And one is, you know, saying alcohol free in your situation and then the other one is

1:46.1

feeling selfish for wanting time for yourself.

1:49.8

And so I want to take both of them.

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