EP 37: Are You Too Comfortable? Here's What That Could Be Telling You
So What Now? with Carla and Dex
Idea to Launch Productions
4.8 • 592 Ratings
🗓️ 9 July 2025
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
Hey Bestie,
We're back! Listen… jetlag and schedule conflics are real.
This week's episode is a catch-up at the house. I just got back from Bali, had a full-blown spiritual awakening (yes, there were tears in the ocean), and maybe met the love of my life… but he said he's not coming back to America soooo that's that. 😅
Dex has been going through it too. When it rains, it pours, okay? She took a little break from social because the doom scroll had her in a chokehold. She opens up about that, plus her quick lil' Miami trip where she gave out her number… but did anything come of it? 👀
We also read a letter from a listener who feels stuck in a "content" life. Not bad, not great—just… meh. She wants more but feels guilty for wanting it. We unpack that, too.
It's raw, it's real, it's us.
We missed y'all. Hit play.
xx
Carla Wilmaris
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| 0:00.0 | Hey y'all. |
| 0:07.3 | We're a couple days late. |
| 0:09.1 | If you clocking us, like Justin Bieber be clocking it. |
| 0:13.4 | They probably sent out a search party. |
| 0:15.4 | They've probably been so worried. |
| 0:16.9 | I'm sorry, friends. |
| 0:18.3 | I am so sorry, my besties. |
| 0:21.1 | We're just starting off rep. |
| 0:23.1 | Look, we're a couple of days late. |
| 0:24.9 | If you follow me on social media, you knew I was out of the country. |
| 0:28.1 | If you follow Dex, who knows where she was. |
| 0:31.6 | In the house, hiding, not the gym, not at work, not nowhere. |
| 0:36.1 | I can't. |
| 0:37.3 | Gone. I was like, she ain't repost nothing has she seen |
| 0:41.6 | the clip then she noticed that the clips weren't going out on time like what is going on over there |
| 0:47.0 | i think i did i don't know i talked to you but then i knew i talked to you so i'm like okay |
| 0:54.1 | she's good but then at the same time i was just doing my own thing. So I was like, you know what? As you should have been. I'll deal with life. When I get back to life. Back to life. Back to reality. And it came hitting me hard. It said at the airport, we're back. I said, oh, my God. Oh, you're reachable? Ring, ring, ring. Ridiculous. I can't believe it. How was your trip, though? I had the most amazing trip. I know we didn't really like talk about the full thing. And since you weren't on social media, you didn't get, you missed the best parts. You posted it though, right? Or you didn't save it. Wait, hold on, because I don't know Instagram on Mo. You can save it. The stories? Yeah. I'm going to try to go back and save some of them. Yeah, you should save all your trips at the top. Yeah, I should because it was eventful. It was so fun. it was was so relaxing i think i did tell you i took my full |
| 1:48.8 | spectrum of medication yeah i took just enough vivans that i won't go to jail because they said you need |
| 1:54.1 | a doctor's no and all kinds of things so i took just enough vivans i took as much as i could of gas ex because you know I'd be gassy as hell when I go out of town all the time. But I'm like, I don't know what I'm going to eat. I took stool softeners. Maybe I didn't have to use none of it. None of it. None of it. I was shitting. I was eating. I lost two pounds. That's good. I lost two pounds. |
| 2:18.6 | And I went doing that crazy. |
| 2:19.9 | Yeah. |
| 2:20.3 | The most I did was I did do like a little quick workout with. |
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